The Indian (Gender-Biased) Domestic Violence Act

By rudy3107, published Dec 07, 2007
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For centuries in India women were treated like goddesses - or devis. Even though there was sati (suttee), with widows voluntary taking to and immolating themselves on their late husband's funeral pyre, as devout Hindus believe, or forced to do so, as opponents of sati believe, it was purely a religious custom, that had nothing to do with women rights1. Man was the head of the family, but at home in fact he was his wife's puppet, a situation described by the wry aside: "He is the BOSS of the House - he has his wife's permission to say so!"

The worth of a civilization can be judged from the position that it gives to women. Of the several factors that justify the greatness of Hinduism's ancient culture, one of the greatest is the honored place ascribed to women. Manu, the great law-giver, said long ago, "Where women are honored there reside the gods." According to ancient Hindu scriptures, no religious rite could be performed by a man perfectly without the active participation of his wife - his wife's participation being essential to any religious rite. Married men could perform sacred rites on the occasion of various important festivals only when accompanied by their wives. Wives are thus befittingly called 'Ardhangani' (better half). They are given not only important but equal position with men (Source http://www.bu.edu/wcp/Papers/Huma/HumaSing.htm by Dr. Ms. Rekha Singh of M.D.D.M. College.

The Indian Domestic Violence Act


According to the Indian Domestic Violence Act:

Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over a female partner.

Abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound the female partner.

Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender - except to males. It can happen among couples who are married, living together or who are dating. Domestic Violence affects people of all socio-economic backgrounds and education levels.

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show me one law in favor of men in family issue, there is not a single law supporting men in india; above that todays women misuse pro women massivly. if women has problem, law is there to protect her; do not shed crocodile tears here

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 8:03:05 AM

 
There are many laws which are being misused ! Why do you havet o point out only those laws which tend to empower women ?There are many drawbacks in the DV Act ,no doubt , but do not deprecate it just because it is pro-women. There are many women out there who do not have a voice. They must be encouraged to get out of abusive marriages.

Posted on 02/19/2008 at 12:02:22 PM

 
It may be true in some cases the Act is being misused. but it is equally true that still women suffer in silence within four walls of their home. Slowly and very slowly women are being sensitised and they have stared to speak in public about the illtreatment that they face in their matrimonial homes. Courts are allways there to safeguard the interests of the parties if they are facing frivolus or victious cases.

Posted on 01/15/2008 at 8:01:30 AM

 
This article regarding the Domestic Violence Act being biased about women has some wrong information. All religious Hindu rights can very well be perforned by man alone without woman on his side. The man has to just tie a beetlenut to hos waist before performing the rites. But the bias in religion is the Hindu woman is not allowed to perform any rites or cermonies by herself. If she is a widow, she is not even allowed to enter the plsce where Prasad is cooked let alone performing any thing. Please do not spread such information already women are facing lots of problem. Most women are victims of various type of abuse daily by husband in laws as well as other outside men, who look at them as vultures. Do not instigate men to victimise women more.

Posted on 12/30/2007 at 4:12:47 AM

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