How to Get Your Girlfriend to Agree to Let You Have Anal Sex: Part One

Top Tips to Get Your Girl to Open Up!!

Most girls are not entriely keen to have anal sex, especially for the first time! It can certainly be rather daunting (men: would you let your girlfriend do this to you!?). However if done, gently, sexually and respectfully, anal sex can be a great deal of fun for both women and men.

The first thing to remember is to never pressure a girl in to sex, especially anal sex. Women don't respond well to pressure, and are likely to completely cut you off if you are rude or aggressive in any way - don't do this! 

Men should mention the possibility of anal sex in conversation and see what your girlfriend says in response. She may have tried it before - if so, ask her about it. Did she like it? If not, ask her what she thinks about it. Don't tell her she has to have it. Ask her if she's ever thought about having it and if she thinks she'd enjoy it.

Most girls think about all kinds of sexual acts, even if they do not consider trying them out in the bedroom. for this reason, you need to gently introduce ideas, whilst showing your girl, that you care about her feelings.

When having sex, ask her how she'd feel about trying something new together - then suggest, anal sex. Her reaction could range from very cross to outright laughter. However she acts, respond as if you are only suggesting it as a joke, but that you might be persuaded to try it if she wants to do it. Don't tell your girlfriend that you REALLY REALLY want to do it, even if you do. As said before, girls don't respond well to ANY kind of pressure... just see how things go....

......STEP TWO......