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Article Downraters, Negative Comments and Nasties - an AC Survival Guide

Writers: How and Why Pettiness Should Not Get Your Goat

By Donna Porter, published Dec 08, 2007
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If you find yourself a victim of verbal assault or an article downrater on Associated Content, or elsewhere, do not despair. Though some Content Producers thrive on this stuff, as givers and receivers, most individuals do not.

As both sensitive souls and alligator skins coexist on AC, some Content Producers take downrating and petty comments more seriously than others.

To the tender-hearted writers, I say, Do not lose your humanity, it is a blessing and part of who you are as a passionate writer.

However, a calloused epidermal layer (and a sense of humor) helps lower stress and maintain a writer's focus, when hurtful comments or ratings are hurled at you personally. And, this reptilian metamorphosis doesn't happen overnight.

Meanwhile, here are some tips and observations I've learned from the Net school of hard-knocks - going on 15 years now. Now it's much easier to separate the human behavior chaff from the wheat.

1. Why Do Associated Content CPs Attack?

The Why varies as much as the Who. Whether it's stress, jealously, poor self-esteem, mental illness, pain, idleness, ego, personality disorder, drug side-effects, personality conflicts, or a bad day, you may likely never know.

More importantly, you can't fix it, whatever it is. Peace and knowledge-seekers like to know "Why," so they can fix the problem. Yet, contemplation is typically wasted time and energy. Leave the "whys" behind for a newfound freedom.

2. How to Respond to Content Producer or Other Attacks?

This is largely a matter of personal preference, but some responses are more productive than others. Additionally, we may know how we should respond, or not, yet have a bad day ourselves.

As a guideline, remember why you writing, or are here at Associated Content. Reaffirm your goals, and consider if the actions best serve you now and in the future.

Negative Comments and Downraters Hurt, What Should I Do?

Put anonymous drive-bys and people who have never demonstrated your best interest in perspective.

Some points to consider as a writer on Associated Content and beyond.

Generally, what people say reveals more about them than it does about you.

Article Downraters, Negative Comments and Nasties - an AC Survival Guide
Article Downraters, Negative Comments and Nasties - an AC Survival Guide

Dealing with a troll or an online dummy?

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Takeaways
  • Mental illness and jealousy are not the only excuses for attacks.
  • Think short-term and long-term for the best way to respond.
  • Listen to winners, not losers. You are a winner.
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Thanks for the article. Funny . . . I've been on the end of criticism and have one awards for writing on the other end of the spectrum (won one for an article I wrote on AC on CD design and sales). I try to remain balanced no matter what end I'm on at the time. :-)

Posted on 08/06/2008 at 8:08:49 PM

 
oh thank you for this one! it hasn't happened to me yet, but i've kind of been afraid of it in the back of my mind. now i know better than to borrow trouble!

Posted on 06/11/2008 at 10:06:09 AM

 
Great job on this!

Posted on 03/30/2008 at 9:03:14 PM

 
This should be required reading for anyone who is new to AC. I use to get so frustrating at the downraters. There for a while, I could always tell when I made the front page because I would log on, only to find that my article had a rating of 1.2 stars. It amazes me at how childishly selfish some people can be.

Posted on 03/16/2008 at 1:03:43 PM

 
This was a pleasure to read. Assholes are assholes, I guess. This piece is inspiring to new writers. Great work.

Posted on 02/08/2008 at 4:02:42 PM

 
excellent article and wonderful advice =) thanks for sharing

Posted on 01/30/2008 at 5:01:25 PM

 
Great points! Did you know that you can profit from negative troll comments? I didn't until I submitted an article to digg.com from one of my blogs. Some nasty so and so make some crude remarks about my blog. I was hurt but I had no power to remove the remark. Within 24 hours my blog recieved over 2000 visitors from that one post on digg.com I can only assume that everyone wanted to see what the blog was really like. It is almost 2 weeks later and I am still getting an elevated amount of visitors.

Posted on 01/07/2008 at 2:01:58 PM

 
Actually some CPs violate AC's Terms of Service with verbal attacks on other writers. One has threatened violence to the point of death on an article simply because the CP did not like what the article said. That is abuse and AC should not tolerate such people writing for them. Even if AC were to suspend their privileges for their vicious attacks on other CPs they would probably post anyway and down rate as well. As in the outside world, there are sick people among our CPs. Your advice is the best way to deal with it.

Posted on 12/29/2007 at 12:12:09 AM

 
Great article, Donna! I'm lucky I read Christa Ludwig's memoir early and had taken her 'critics should be able to say to the artist's face what they write about her elsewhere' to heart. It's a great rule of thumb for conducts online for me. You're absolutely right about how the downraters/harassers/stalkers aren't worth sweating over indeed. Better feed off the 99% of the audience who are sane than obsessing about the 1% that haven't outgrown their childhood. Thanks for another enlightening read! Hope 2008 is looking better by the minute! :o)

Posted on 12/27/2007 at 2:12:09 PM

 
Great article, and very humorous in places as well. It's funny, on my blog, I get negative comments, because I am a Christian, and don't hide it. They really came out of the woodwork, when I said that Christmas was a Christian holiday. Of course, they had to "educate" me on the pagan origins of the day, nada, nada, nada... (as if this was all news to me.) But unless something is really foul language, I leave it and respond. I like the exchange of ideas, and always try and thank people for commenting. If it was really distasteful or something, I would delete it. But otherwise, a good controversy on here adds to page views! LOL! Terrific article Donna! :)

Posted on 12/18/2007 at 11:12:33 PM

 
I've seen some of those nasty comments. Some people will do anything for attention. Great article. :-)

Posted on 12/18/2007 at 5:12:41 AM

 
Great article. Some of the comments from unregistered readers are amazing.

Posted on 12/18/2007 at 3:12:36 AM

 
I used to nasty comments bother me. Thankfully my skinned has thickened over time.

Posted on 12/16/2007 at 5:12:10 PM

 
Great points Donna. That's why I never let ratings determine whether or not I'll read another CP's work. Just as a high rating doesn't always indicate exceptional quality, neither does a low rating indicate poor quality. In fact, some of the articles I've enjoyed the most here on AC didn't necessarily have the highest ratings - at least not by the time I discovered them. As M.S. Medina pointed out, the articles that make "Top Rated" often take the hardest and most drastic fall shortly thereafter.

Posted on 12/15/2007 at 6:12:11 PM

 
Great advice. Everyone get the odd stalker,down rater and generally nasty piece of work at some point along the way, just take it with a pinch of salt. Most people are nice, I always try to do as I would be done by, and I hate downing anyone so I just won't do it, laughing, chin up if anyone does it to you they give up in the end, just envy in my opinion.

Posted on 12/15/2007 at 1:12:12 PM

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