Seven Rules for Attending the Office Holiday Party

It's the one party of the year you really can't find an excuse to miss. The office party is almost a part of your job description, and the powers that be are sure to notice if you skip out on the event. Since skipping the office party could hurt your reputation as a team player, it's essential that you do make an effort to make the most of it; knowing how to behave just comes with the territory. If you're a recent recruit for your company and attending for the first time, or long-time employee who's attending yet another group function, there are some unsaid rules of etiquette to keep in mind:

Office Holiday Party Rule #1: Don't talk shop. It's fine to introduce yourself as part of such-and-such department, but keep the inter-office jokes and nuances to a minimum. Anyone from a different floor or guests at the party will probably give you that glazed look if you start going into details about your latest project.

Office Holiday Party Rule #2: Stick to a two drink maximum. Staying somewhat sober at the office party will help you stay professional, even in a social setting. Avoid turning into next day's gossip topic, and keep the alcohol to a minimum.

Office Holiday Party Rule #3:Never, ever complain about the boss. Or coworkers, for that matter. Office parties are the perfect place to start a rumor or spread some negative karma-at light speed. Keep your conversations positive and upbeat, and slowly sidle away from conversations that start ranting about your boss or people in your department.

Office Holiday Party Rule #4: Don't be a wallflower. The office holiday party is a great time to schmooze and network with people you would otherwise never see on a daily basis. Take the time to introduce yourself and get to know people in your company.

Office Holiday Party Rule #5: Stop wishing everyone a Merry Christmas. Unless you're also going to wish them a Happy Chanukkah, Happy Kwanzaa, and other holiday wishes for this time of year, exercise some 'political correctedness' and just stick with 'Happy Holidays' if you must send some wishes.