Picking Out a Diamond Engagement Ring

The Four C's aren't a rock group. A heart does't always apply to an organ in your chest. Carats aren't always vegetables.
These terms all have to do with what's commonly called a girl's best friend - the diamond. The purchase of a diamond engagement ring is a major decision as multifaceted as the stones you're selecting. Here's a helpful guide covering the basics of the diamond buying process.

The taste test

"First of all, the most important thing is to know your partner's taste," said Garry Shepard, owner of Jergers in Thomasville, Ga.(www.jergerjewelers.com). He suggests visiting jewelry stores together to find out her ring preferences. "Listen to what she likes," Shepard said. "Learn about what cut, metal choice and design she prefers."

At Jergers, white metals, such as platinum and white gold, are the favorites among local couples. One of their most popular engagement rings is a 1920s Deco-style filigree ring. Three-stone diamond rings are also a best seller. Shepard says women are becoming more involved in the selection process, with couples coming into his store together.

"This is a ring she will wear every day of her life," he said. "She wants a style she can be happy with." If part of your proposal plan calls for surprising your bride-to-be with the ring, enlist the help and opinions of the other females in your life, such as your friends, sisters and good ol' mom.

Tallahassee groom John Gilcher took his mom with him when he went to select a diamond ring for Heather. Together they picked out a marquise-shaped style. "When I saw it, I knew it was the one I wanted," Gilcher said. The couple wed at Golden Hills Country Club in Ocala Nov. 18.

Determine your price range, style, setting and shape

The Diamond Trading Company (www.adiamondisforever.com) suggests an engagement ring be worth the equal of up to two months salary. This is simply a guide. Diamonds can be found in a range of price, and you're certain to find one that suits your taste and what you plan to spend.