Is Your First Cat Jealous of the New Cat?

How to React

By Sophie, published Dec 19, 2007
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Bringing a new cat into the home of a well established cat is not an easy undertaking. But most cats are able to get used to one another and even become close companions and friends. But other cats never seem to adapt to the new cat and get along. Are they fighting or is it just an innocent wrestle? The following are signs to look out for if you suspect your first cat is jealous of the new cat and is trying to push the new cat away.

Is Your First Cat Jealous of the New Cat? Won't Share Food or Water

A jealous cat will be unwilling to share its food and water with the new cat. As the cat owner places the food and water in its usual spot, the established cat will likely run past the new cat and make sure it gets to the food and water bowls first before the new cat gets a chance to approach the bowls. Jealous cats are very territorial and will do all they can to keep the "usurper" away from what they view as theirs. Watch to see what happens when the new cat then manages to approach the food and water bowls. The first cat may glare at the newer cat and stiffen its body defensively or even approach the cat and try to pick a fight so that the new cat has no choice but to move away.

Whenever you see this, you must discourage your first cat from behaving so aggressively and physically place the new cat by the food and water if you have to just to make sure that the cat does not starve. Alternatively, use separate food and water bowls and set them up apart from each other so that the first cat feels more comfortable at mealtimes.

Is Your First Cat Jealous of the New Cat? Tries to Divert Attention Away from the New Cat

It is easy to tell if the first cat is jealous of the new cat when the cat owner lavishes attention on the new cat. The simple act of picking up the cat, stroking it and making a general fuss will be carefully observed by the first cat. He, in turn, will try to divert attention away from the new cat and will make it obvious that he too wants to be made a fuss of.

Takeaways
  • A jealous cat will not want to share its food and water
  • Use separate food and water bowls
  • If your first cat tries to divert attention away from the new cat, it is feeling left out
Did You Know?
Make sure you strike a careful balance and give each cat attention
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We have the opposite problem here, the new cat is the bully and she's smaller too. Good tips, it's not always easy introducing a new cat into the household.

Posted on 01/08/2008 at 10:01:55 AM

 
I couldn't have a second cat, mine would go mental and chase it out of the house!

Posted on 01/04/2008 at 5:01:06 PM

 
Our newish cat and our established cat still have difficulty getting along.

Posted on 12/26/2007 at 7:12:25 PM

 
when someone adopts from us and they already have a cat... we recommend supervised visitations and the new kitty having his or her own room for the first two weeks... let the kitties become accustomed to the new smells first and then....

Posted on 12/21/2007 at 9:12:41 PM

 
I have heard of this before..jealousy sometimes will rear its ugly head!..I can't even imagine what my little dog would do if I introduced another pet of any kind!..he is even jealous of my little betta that I just got..well this is not to say the "betta" is not a pet too..just kind of a "different" kind..:)

Posted on 12/21/2007 at 10:12:39 AM

 
Good article! We were very worried for the first week or so because we had a hard time telling when they were playing and when they were really fighting. LOL Our older cat tried to resist, but the new kitten just insisted they would be friends and finally he gave in. :)

Posted on 12/20/2007 at 8:12:02 PM

 
Hi Sophie, good article! I will probably not have this trouble because I can't afford to have two cats! Ilrnr

Posted on 12/20/2007 at 4:12:05 PM

 
Good article and very true!

Posted on 12/20/2007 at 11:12:35 AM

 
I agree with Jody...it can be true of all pets. Great article.

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 5:12:05 PM

 
I appreciate the comments. Sophie

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 5:12:49 PM

 
I think that this can hold true for any type of pets, really. Great article with good points!

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 5:12:42 PM

 
It can be hard bringing a new kitty in. Nice article

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 2:12:50 PM

 
My herd of 7 get along pretty well for the most part, thankfully. Great read!

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 11:12:16 AM

 
I've had this happen, and the fur was flying. My older cat was constantly attacked, and I had to find a new home for the other. I don't think any amount of petting and attention would have worked. Surprisingly, the new cat was the attacker.

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 11:12:22 AM

 
:^ )

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 11:12:58 AM

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