Feminism and the Ignorant Woman

Would Someone Please Explain?



Feminism:  1. Belief in the social, political, and economical equality of the sexes; 2. The movement organized around this belief (http://www.dictionary.com)

Don't get me wrong. I'm a woman through and through, and the idea of equality in society, goverment, and the world in general is appealing to me. I don't particulary want to spend my life working for a man, having my ass grabbed and being ordered to take dictation, make his coffee, and
 answer his phones. Luckily, this is the new millenium and not the 1950s, so I guess I don't have anything to worry about, right? Well....depends on how you look at it. 

The other day I read a short blog about a self proclaimed feminist who was angry about the fact that her employer had offered to explain the maternity leave policies to her upon her hire. From the short rant, I did not gather that she was of a size that pregnancy was an issue, nor did I take it that she was being sexually harassed in any form. The girl made it quite clear that she wasn't pregnant. Apparently, the man's mistake had been in assuming that she'd ever want children in the first place, and that it was highly sexist of him to assume that just because she was female that she was automatically required to understand how the company could help her were she to decide to ever carry a child. My own sarcastic nature, a bit outraged, decided that it would be great if she took that to court. Not only would it make her feel justified, but then all the poor women in the workforce who actually did want children at some point could be left completely in the dark when it came to their own employer's pregnancy leave polices. Feminism at its ignorant best. 

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It's women like YOU that are the ignorant beasts.

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 8:03:28 AM

There are plenty of feminists out there who agree with your viewpoint, myself being one of them. But please fight the need to present negative examples of the stereotype and shed a positive light on feminism. I don't think feminism is dominated by "man-haters," I just think perhaps that that type of feminist is the most vocal and happens to possess the masculine characteristic of being loud and aggressive, thereby drawing attention to herself. I'd say we're all some combination of the feminine and the masculine, and feminism is equality of choice -- to choose to be yourself to the fullest extent.

Posted on 02/27/2008 at 8:02:57 AM

Freedom of speech. I may not like what someone says (such as your boyfriends shirt) but if we restrict what others say, we have to be willing to have what we say restricted as well. People say rude, crude and ugly things; get used to it.

Posted on 06/07/2007 at 8:06:00 PM

chrysd: Pro-choice means pro-choice plain and simple. When the anti-abortion movement got going they changed the name to pro-life, but it still means: anti-abortion. A women's pregnancy and choosing to terminate is a private issue between her and god as she knows s/he. I do not condone abortion, I condone prevention, and I also believe that other people have a right to "liberty (choice) and pursuit of happiness". I am not about to tell a girl who was raped by her father to bear his child. I would, however, argue for castration of all rapists, but men would never allow such a law to be passed. Or men have free choice and females do not. That is what the women's movement is all about. We are not second class citizens or property.

Posted on 06/07/2007 at 8:06:00 PM

Maybe she had the rag on that day (as they used to say). I have never had a boss offer to explain the companies maternity policy to me. Of course that is a new employee benefit; used to be: baby born out of job end of story. Pregnant females were often fired or not hired because they would quit to raise kids so not worth a companies investment. Just because I want to wear pants does not make me less female in my eyes. There was a time girls in the USA were not allowed to wear "slacks" to school. Yeah, some feminists go over board, but bless them 'cause now I can wear slacks whenever I want to.

Posted on 06/07/2007 at 8:06:00 PM

Thank you! Feminism shouldn't be about raging insanity and becoming masculine. We're feminine, and that's beautiful.

Posted on 10/29/2006 at 8:10:00 PM

roval. This is exactly what makes me so greatful to feminism.

Posted on 08/10/2006 at 10:08:00 AM

"(...) encompass that opinion to cover how all women should think" - but isn't that precisely what *you* did? You say you wrote it in the "heat of the moment", but don't you think that applies to those women? The feminist on the blog is bombarded daily with how shes expected to be a mother or how her brain works better for raising kids. It is very irritating to see banal frat-boy types trying to impress people with shirts that use language and images that apply offensively to women yet there are no cooresponding ones for a man - no wonder that woman was upset! And no, she didn't censor your boyfriend. To your comment about the power of breasts, you go to certain parts of the world and nobody will give a damn it is so mundane. Not so "powerful" after all, is it? Sorry, but no, I'm a woman in a 7 month relationship with a man I'm not going to define "what makes me a woman" and my femininity by popping off a kid (what, are infertile women not feminine?), chivalry, or male app

Posted on 08/10/2006 at 10:08:00 AM

s me is that the instances I spoke of (and ones in the past that didn't seem to fit in the article) were presented as "This is how it should be" rather than "This is my opinion on the matter."

Posted on 08/09/2006 at 8:08:00 PM

Wow! I'm glad this got people talking! I have nothing against freedom of speech. In fact, I'm very much against any form of censorship and if someone wants to speak out, than so be it. Nor do I think everyone should take my view as their own. It takes all kinds to make the world go 'round. What interests me about the topic in general is that the one heading of feminism seems to garner such a wide variety of responses and many of them are extremely strong to the point of being narrow minded. A person's opinion is one thing, but when they encompass that opinion to cover how "all" women should think, that's pushing it a bit far. I rank it with the religion and politics. I respect other's opinions if they respect mine, and I'm more likely to not get angry if a view is put forth showing that its a personal view and not a "fact." I can admit that I didn't show that well in the writing of my article, being as I did write it "in the heat of the moment" so to speak. What bother

Posted on 08/09/2006 at 8:08:00 PM

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