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Tips for Keeping Your New Year's Resolutions

By Lenora Murdock, published Dec 19, 2007
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A New Year is around the corner. Now is the time for new beginnings. 2008 is full of potential. It will be as grand as you make it. Embrace the opportunity for change.

As you thoughtfully make a list of your New Year's resolutions for 2008, consider setting new goals, breaking old habits, and growing socially, emotionally, and intellectually.

Admittedly, it's easier to make resolutions than to keep them. By following a few simple strategies, you can ensure yourself a greater chance to succeed.

1. Set reasonable resolutions.
Yearly resolutions and lifetime goals are different things. You should have both. However, realize what is reasonable within a year versus what you expect to achieve in a lifetime.

Allow for life circumstances and unforeseen set-backs. Give yourself enough breathing room to set resolutions that are attainable. Things which seem outside your grasp probably are not, but you have to know how many baby steps it takes to get to your long term goal. Dissolution will take your resolutions captive if they are too big for the year ahead.

2. Set challenging New Year's resolutions.
Don't set your resolutions beyond your grasp, but don't underestimate your potential for the New Year, either. Make sure your resolutions challenge you to grow or change in some way. Resolutions should force you to move outside your comfort zone, learn something new, or try something different help you grow. If your goals aren't challenging, then they aren't worth making. You don't need to plan to maintain the status quo.

3. Write your resolutions.
It is easier to keep a resolution when you can refer back to it in writing. See them in black and white. Writing helps lodge your resolutions in your memory. A written list of your New Year's resolutions helps you keep yourself accountable.

Takeaways
  • Set challenging but reasonable resolutions.
  • Enlist an accountability partner to help you keep your New Year's resolutions.
  • Let go of the past and reach toward the possibilities of the New Year.
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I don't make resolutions for New Years because I never keep them. But, you gave excellent advice.

Posted on 01/01/2008 at 2:01:37 PM

 
First I gotta get my roof checked, and now this? (Am reading in backward sequence.) You're a toughie, Lenora. Of course, it's all true. Still, it makes me think of a cartoon panel I saw years ago. Doctor to patient: "I want you to eat and drink as much as you want .... smoke two packs a day .... and don't bother with exercise. .... By the way, I am not a real doctor." Patient: "Hey, no problem, doc!" -- Mike

Posted on 12/21/2007 at 11:12:12 PM

 
great job~~~~~~~~~~~~~ this was helpful

Posted on 12/21/2007 at 9:12:10 PM

 
For my New Year's resolution, I'm going to Macworld a few days early this year to go to an event called Energy Camp in SF. I'm not going to stop bathing or anything but I figured there is something I can do to make a difference by learning how to reduce carbon emissions and waste. Check out www.openeco.org/energycamp for info. -- Its free by the way!

Posted on 12/21/2007 at 1:12:05 PM

 
My New Year's resolution is to follow each and every bit of your advice! :) Great, great job!

Posted on 12/20/2007 at 10:12:34 AM

 
Good points!

Posted on 12/20/2007 at 9:12:30 AM

 
Good points!

Posted on 12/20/2007 at 9:12:28 AM

 
These are great tips. I esp. think that being prepared for unanticipated events and making accommodations along the way- as well as self-forgiveness for missteps- is critical to achieving such goals.

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 8:12:30 PM

 
These are some great ideas that if followed, will help people to succeed!

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 7:12:50 PM

 
People do seem to have high expectations of themselves and then feel deflated when they do not reach their goals. Sophie

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 6:12:32 PM

 
I never make resolutions, but I do usually feel like: meh, 2007 wasn't my year...2008 is going to be it! Then it will be 2009 is going to be it!

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 12:12:21 PM

 
These are very helpful tips. I think the biggest mistake people mistake is setting their goals too high. I wonder how many really succeed? Great job!

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 11:12:53 AM

 
I think setting reasonable goals and having a support system, like you said...surround yourself with positive people are the two most important things to keep in mind if you really want to achieve you new years resolution. Great Tips!

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 9:12:51 AM

 
Very nice, Lenora!

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 9:12:39 AM

 
AMEN! Thank You fer sharin'. Merry Christmas. ;-}}>

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 9:12:40 AM

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