How to Be Smart, Attractive and Confident

Everyone likes to be confident, attractive, smart and cool. We all want to be talk of the office/ friend circle. Whether it's in your personal life or at office, one has to work up his/her way to be attractive and happening.

There is a step by step process to be attractive, confident and to stand out.

First of all... Find out the person you feel is attractive. Try to observe his/ her traits, talking style, dressing styled, everything. You will first need to know what you want. Looking at a person whom you think is attractive and friendly will help a great way in identifying areas of change/ improvement. What is it that you and other people admire in him/her? Try to know the person better.

Secondly, look at yourself... What are your weakness/ weaknesses? It's easier said than done. But you start observing yourself. How do you communicate? Who all know you and break a conversation with you. How often do you start a conversation? How often someone banks on you to get things solved? What is your energy level and how do you dress? Asking yourself all these questions will help you go to the cause. All of these play import part in your personality. Your energy and confidence shows that you are alert and ready to talk with. People like talking to you and you suddenly become talk of the town sorts.

Change... After identifying your weakness, learn and try to change them. Learn to correct your mistakes and convert your weaknesses to strengths. It will need a conscious effort. But be patient, go one at a time. Gradually change habits/ weaknesses one by one.For example, try to dress smartly if you are not. Try talking to people more, if you have been shying away from them. Be confident and outspoken.

Educate yourself... Be aware about the happenings, One should know things to start a conversation or to contribute. If you know something only then will you express it. Talk about latest news or movies, a little bit of gossip is ok. At workplace know about latest developments so that you are not caught unaware. Be alert and attentive. Attention to details is the key!