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Jamie Lynn Spears is Pregnant, Britney Spears is a Mess, and I'm Wondering: Where Are the Parents?

By Abby Johns, published Dec 18, 2007
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With the latest shocking announcement from the Spears camp, Jamie Lynn Spears is pregnant, I'm beginning to wonder what kind of parenting they are getting. I could at least have slight confidence in Lynne Spears's ability to parent if Britney Spears were the only one getting negative publicity, but now that we know that Jamie Lynn Spears is pregnant, I am doubting that it is pure coincidence that both of the Spears girls are gaining bad publicity.

When Britney Spears first started to break free from her cute pop princess persona I was shocked and disappointed. I was a couple years too old to be an admirer of the pop princess, I instead found myself wondering what kind of example she was setting for the millions of young girls who admired her. I can still vividly remember that VMA performance in which she donned a rhinestone encrusted, flesh toned body suit while shaking what her momma, or a plastic surgeon, gave her.

Then, in recent years, while watching her spiral out of control, first with her quickie marriage to K-Fed, and then with her more recent choice to shave her head, I began to feel sorry for her. I felt like maybe her growing up in the public eye had made her lose touch with reality. In a way, I wanted to invite Britney Spears to live a normal life with me and my girlfriends in hopes that maybe she would learn what it would be like to live comfortably, not extravagantly, and feel true happiness. I felt bad that she had gone from topping the charts and being admired by millions to being the laughing stock of Hollywood. When news broke that she wasn't speaking to her mother I felt for her mom and Briney, knowing from personal experience that it is sometimes easy to take parents for granted, and I was just hoping that she would not one day regret this decision, since none of us know how much time we will really have with our parents.

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great article...shocking news for sure! Its a shame that parents are having such a hard time controlling their children these days...and its not even celebrity parents...its all parents. Children have too much freedom and that leads to big problems. Its unfortunate that all of these things happened to the Spears family, hopefully they'll do what they can to turn things around.

Posted on 01/09/2008 at 9:01:47 AM

 
That was excellent SisterL. I have learned that just because children or teens act out, it is not necessarily the fault of the parents. You can guide your children, discuss things openly with your children, but ultimately, they will make decisions on their own. Sex is being thrown in their faces constantly through the media, and it's been trickling down to the younger group. Second, Britney is obviously dealing with the disease of addiction. This is not the fault of her mother, and her mother cannot fix her. Britney must do the work to become sober and healthy, this entails AA or NA meetings, and counseling. The only thing her mother can do is to go to AlAnon to learn how NOT to enable her. These people need good wishes and prayers, not ridicule.

Posted on 12/22/2007 at 6:12:15 PM

 
Maybe Lynne Spears failed her children. Maybe not. There are a few people I know who went bonkers in high school who have wonderful, kind parents. People make poor decisions,it happens. Jamie Lynn's mother can't be blamed for everything. It should also be noted that Jamie Lynn and Casey have been dating for a few years; that means they started dating when Casey was under 18. Perhaps Lynne was simply allowing her children to begin to take responsibility for themselves, and for some reason they made poor choices. I think most people would agree that the temptation to have sex, once one has started down that road, is very difficult to fight. I'm not condoning unmarried sexual behavior; I think complete abstinence until marriage is the best choice. I'm simply saying that the finger-pointing should desist, unless we point it back on our own sex-charged culture

Posted on 12/21/2007 at 10:12:49 AM

 
This explains a lot. good information.

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 1:12:37 AM

 
Two other things of concern regarding her: she was apparently living with her boyfriend prior to this. Secondly, that's statutory rape! Lynne - I think something went wrong with your parenting skills, methinks.

Posted on 12/18/2007 at 11:12:32 PM

 
I had not heard about this before now. Shocking, absolutely shocking. Excelent article Abby!

Posted on 12/18/2007 at 9:12:46 PM

 
I was shocked when i heard the news.

Posted on 12/18/2007 at 8:12:12 PM

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