Teen Advice: How to Tell If You're About to Be Dumped

By Kirsi Bertolini, published Dec 18, 2007
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Are you sitting home and staring at the phone? Do you have this nagging feeling that everything is not as peachy as it should be between you and your man? When was the last time you were just making out for no reason?

Are you happy? Does he seem happy? Are you making plans together? Or are you just doing things the way boyfriend and girl friend are supposed to? Is there tense moments between you two more than before?

There is so many little signs that can tell you that your relationship is in dead end road. But if you are still big time in love you just refuse to look and answer to any of those nagging questions.

It is hard. Sometimes it is even harder to dump than get dumped. This is why so many couples will just go through the motions as long as they can making the final break up even harder to swallow.

Does your man go out with his friends all the time these days? Does he avoid looking at you straight into your eyes? Is romance gone?

Are the movies more about chatting and small talk than that tingly feel and stealing kisses? Do you feel like a third wheel just there sometimes while you go out as a couple but end up hanging with friends.

No matter how you try to reason it and tell yourself everything is fine and it is not a big deal, it will still eat you inside. So unless you enjoy living in suspense and plan to have a miserable life, go ahead and face your man.

Tell him how you feel and ask what is up! Yes, you might end up dumped then and there but even if it hurts like hell it is still better than not knowing and living a lie.

If your guy wants out, let him go, trust me, you do deserve better!Dump and get dumped, eat the ice cream, cry to those slow songs you used to dance and feel miserable and be selfish for a while. Then move on, go out and look around. After all it was his loss, right! You are amazing person and any guy would be lucky to have you. So live in a moment, not in the past, there is plenty fish in the sea!

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