Be an Irresistible Woman: Don't Give Your Jewels Away

If anyone of you have been a victim of robbery it is a devastating feeling.You feel violated, angry and used. I have been the victim of robbery and it hurts so bad. There are other ways to be robbed, emotional and physically. In relationships with men we can robbed and taken advantage of and left hurt. I apologize to any woman out there reading this article who has been robbed of your jewels, whether it be physically, emotionally, mentally and financially. Its not to late to learn key tools to help you in future relationships. For those of you who have not been robbed in this way lets keep it like that, by following some wise advice my favorite author Michelle Mickinney Hammond.

Don't give too much too soon. We can get too excited about the idea of love and being loved that we give of ourselves physically and emotionally too quickly. The problem with that is we don't know the man long enough to know if he is worthy of what we can give. As women, we have big hearts and many blessing and jewels to offer our men. However, we must have emotional, physical and spiritual boundaries especially when we are just getting to know someone. Hold out on giving too much at once. If a man really likes you and wants to pursue you he will not pressure you in away that violates your conscience. He will stick around for the time it takes to really get to know you, so that he becomes worthy of your Jewels. By jewels I mean your attention, body, mind, gifts and talents. And as far as sex goes, its just better to be married because there is a commitment!

When you give too much too soon and he runs out on you, you are the one who gets hurt and is left in anguish. He's out having a good time with a new woman and your are left with deep wounds. Deep wounds that will affect your future relationship with the right man. Keep your heart till you know the man is worthy and a man that wants to stick with you and not bail out on you.