How to Dress Sexy: What to Wear After Five and Where to Get the Best

So it’s after five, what are you going to do? Go to a casual bar or pub? Go to a singles bar? Spend the night out with the girls? Or, do you already have a date lined up? What are you going to wear? Whatever you do, you probably want to look and feel attractive, sensual, and sexy. But, how does one accomplish that look without going overboard? How does one accomplish that look while also accentuating the true you?

Sexy does not equal sluttish. It’s not about how low your top is or how high your skirt or shorts are. It is certainly not about red lace and vinyl skirts. Sexy is rather about mystery and femininity. Dressing sexy equals glamour, sophistication, and style.

You might be very surprised to learn that one of today’s particularly sexy dressing trends concerns silky, touchable, light-weight tops accentuated with lace, floral print patterns, and sequins. Camisoles, in particular, are a very sexy dressing trend. To be a sex goddess, wear something like this satiny Elke Camisole from Saks Fifth Avenue with tight fitting jeans, or try something like this mint green satin embroidered camisole, or even something simple like this beaded camisole from Chadwicks.

A word on tight fitting jeans: While formfitting is sexy, you don’t want to endanger yourself with yeast infections or infertility by going overboard. How do you choose which size to buy? Simple, try on the tightest size you can. If you can see your panty or thong outlined through the jeans, then go down another size. In this new size, if you can see the cleavage of your buttocks clearly outlined, then go down still another size and you’ve found what you’re looking for. The point of formfitting jeans is to gracefully outline your hips and buttocks while also tracing the lines of your legs to make your legs look longer. Try some skinny jeans from someplace like Bloomingdales, or for extra comfort, try stretch jeans. To your jeans add your touchable, flouncy, silky top and some pumps or some tall boots like the Sudini “Legend” Boot found at Nordstrom.