Reconciliation

Marriage as an institution has always been highly placed in the Indian sociological scenario. It has been always been seen as the first step towards settled life and laying the foundation of family. But as they say, "All human troubles start from the inability to
 sit quietly in a room," this so called sacred institution has its own dark side. Where, on one hand, marriage provides a platform to two individuals coming from totally different backgrounds and albeit different mindsets to come together, understand each other and be each others support in life, financially, morally, spiritually, emotionally and physically, it has its own uninvited share of problems.
The most talked of and debatable of the problems associated with marriage is DOWRY. Sometimes the girls' family give dowry as a pre-assumption that the boys' family shall keep the girl happy and sometimes it is seen from the boys side as compensation to take care of the girl. With increasing reports from the media about the torture meted out to the Indian Daughter-in-law about dowry harassment and deaths due to it, the Govt. of India formulated the Dowry Prohibition Act in 1961 and introduced Section 498A in the Indian Penal Code in the year 1983, wherein harassment of the 'wife' for dowry was named as a criminal offence and extremely strict measures were provided within its ambit to protect the 'Married Woman' from the clutches of money-hungry dowry demanders. It just required a written unverified complaint from the girl or any relative on behalf of the girl to file a criminal case against the 'HUSBAND' and his family members and they would be arrested immediately and sent to judicial custody until either they were bailed out or chargesheeted and trial ensued. But it was a very big catch there, since the provision gave the police discretionary powers of arrest, and that too on an unverified complaint, as also filing a false complaint under this offense and leveling false accusations against the HUSBAND and his family did not attract any punishment on the girl or her parents, a lot of false complaints have started pouring in.

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If marriage has come to a stage where it is not possible to go along go for divorce & maintenance if required. There is no need for 498a in a relation as sacred as marriage.

Posted on 09/03/2008 at 4:09:27 AM

Very well written. Thanks a lot for your insights, very helpful. A wife, who files a false 498a and other complaints, is indeed an evil women, and it is an act of great disgust.

Posted on 06/19/2008 at 12:06:39 PM

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