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Is Signing Your Child Up for Piano Lessons Putting Too Much Stress on Them?

A Few Things for Parents to Think About

By renee, published Aug 21, 2006
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Your child may suddenly show you that they have some interest in the piano. So of course as a parent you may begin thinking that your child could be the next piano playing genius. But is immediately running out and signing your child up for piano lessons putting a lot of undue pressure and stress on them? 

This article will give you a few ideas and suggestions on how you can help encourage your child to play the piano without stressing them out.  The first thing that you will could do is buy them a keyboard. You should be able to find one of these at any of your local music stores. You will not have to buy a very expensive one, but just something that will give your child the opportunity to explore if playing the piano is something that they really would like to do. 

You are probably wondering why I suggest you get a keyboard when they are actually interested in a piano?Well obviously a keyboard is the next best thing to a piano. And the last thing that you want to do is spend a ton of money on lessons or even worse on a piano for your child when their enthusiasm will wear off. Depending on where you live piano lessons can tend to get pretty expensive. So this would e a good way for you to see how much your child wants to play. 

One thing that many parents are guilty of is very quickly signing their child up for lessons, and then even after they no longer want to play, we force them to continue. Why? Well obviously after you have paid so much money you don’t want it to be a waste so you end up making your child finish their lessons, only to have them end up hating the piano. If however after some time your child still shows some interest in playing the piano, why not sign them up for a few lessons. 

Just remember not to expect too much from them. Don’t force them to practice all day and all night until they get it right. The best thing to do is allow them to learn at their own pace. Remember that some children tend to excel at music and others don’t, but you do not want to discourage them from trying. 

Takeaways
  • The first thing that you will could do is buy them a keyboard
  • Depending on where you live piano lessons can tend to get pretty expensive.
  • Don't force them to practice all day and all night until they get it right.
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They're just kids so the main focus should be about them enjoying themselves and just having fun.
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Sorry for the typos. This is my first post here and I thought I would have a chance to edit. For more info on piano instruction visit (www.camta.org) (www.lakeshoremusicstudio.com) (www.musicformoppets.com) or (www.leerobertsmusic.com).

Posted on 08/22/2006 at 12:08:00 PM

 
(Last bit) Don't see this an a opportunity to trim a line item from the household budget. What is his or her issue? Perhaps it is time for a new teacher or a conference with the teacher to figure out a way to motivate this student. If your child is struggling but enjoying himself their is no harm in continuing. If your child is struggling and hating it, continuing may not be the best choice. The most difficult scenario is a student who has achieved a level of proficiency but wants to quit because of other outside pressure. Mastering a musical instrument at a young age when learning is easier and time to learn is available, will provide a person with a lifetime of enjoyment. Few other activities can make this claim.

Posted on 08/22/2006 at 12:08:00 PM

 
(continued) Nobody tells his players not to practice or try a little harder to master their skills. I thnk parent's can judge their child's limits. Perhaps helping them practice may be a better suggestion. Your piano instructor can give you ideas on how you can help your child at home. All children get to a point where they want to quit the activity they have been involoved with. The trick is decerning when it is outside peer pressure; distraction from a current seemingly more interesting new actitivity; the fact that the actitivity has presented new challenges that the child feels s/he is not up to or actual lack of desire to continue. Many people seems to have a horror story of being forced to continue after the child's interest has waned, but there is an equal number of people who wish that they had been "encouraged" to continue. Many kids quit in high shcool at the point that they have mastered the basics and can begin to be creative and interpretive. Know your child. Do

Posted on 08/22/2006 at 11:08:00 AM

 
My wife is a piano teacher and I have a few comments re the advice offered here. First of all, just getting your child a keyboard and allowing them the explore will not neccessarily reveal the genius within. Rather finding a well respected instructor in your area who can nurture your child's interest will be a more productive solution. Not all piano lessons are forty five minutes of endless drills and scales. There are a number of programs that provide age appropriate instruction that incorporate games and technology while reinforcing and ecouraging keyboard skills. Becoming proficeint at anything, whether piano, gymnastics or videogames requires a certain level of tenacity and willingness to practice. If only the fear of overpracticing were a serious worry as Renee suggests. Practice is not a torture, it is the opportunity to challenge yourself. Good practicing in any activity requires a person to push beyond their comfort level. Ask any football or tennis coach. Nobody tells his

Posted on 08/22/2006 at 11:08:00 AM

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