10 Tips for Preparing as a Parent for the Teenage Difficult Years

10 Tips for Preparing as a Parent for the Teenage Difficult Years

By Michelle WithaM, published Aug 23, 2006
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It may be difficult to be prepared as a parent for the difficult years in the process of raising teenagers. Teenagers usually struggle through the teen years due to not wanting to follow rules, not being allowed to stay out all night.

Some parents don't know what to do during the teen years with teenagers in order to get them to behave. Here are ten tips for preparing as a parent for the difficult years in order to reduce the amount of problems during the teen years.

1. Let your teenagers know that they can't break the rules. Make sure that your teenagers know that they must be back home by a certain time each night. You don't want to be flexible on the curfew time with them. You want them to know that you are serious about them being home by the curfew time.

2. Always enforce the house rules. It is important to not let them get away with not following the house rules. If you let them get away with not following the house rules then they get the impression that you aren't really serious about the house rules. You want them to know that you are strict.

3. Make sure that they still do chores around the house. Don't let them slack off on the chores. Constantly reminding them to do chores will help them stay out of trouble since they will be busy during chores most of the time. You want them to know that you are serious about them being a responsible young person and doing chores shows that they are responsible and reliable.


4. Always make it rule that the teenagers must keep good grades. Don't let them slack off in school. When teens know that they must get good grades in school then they know that they can't slack off since you are serious. You want to teach them the importance of getting good grades since it will help them later on in college and help them gain more knowledge.


5. Always let them know that drug use is NEVER allowed. Don't let your teenagers get away with drinking underage or any other type of drug use. You want them to know that drugs are bad and that you won't tolerate any drug use whatsoever. You want them to know that you are serious and that you care about their health. Let them know that you don't want them to end up in jail for any crimes related to drugs.

Takeaways
  • Always enforce the house rules.
  • Make sure that they stay busy doing chores around the house.
  • Don't let them be disrespectful.
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It is too easy to make these type of statements within the context of todays family life. The guidelines are very balck and white. Children have such a strong sense of responsibility to handle their future on their own and so much access to the world through the internet that creating such a law and order family life does not work. I would say that rules and guidelines need to be flexable and open, that being in a family has to be fun and hopeful for the individual child. What are you going to do when the child decides to create more flexable rules for their life, when life influences them in positive ways that you may not understand, when they need to expand and explore, but remain responsbile in the world. Life for children is so complex, families are so busy and fragmented, and children are exposed to a world with so many problems that they feel and take seriously...children need to feel a part of something that reflects where they are at and their social responsibility needs to

Posted on 04/14/2008 at 12:04:12 AM

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