As a medical provider it always amazes me that when an individual seeks help, they never really seem to want the reality of what may be the cure. I find more often than not that when I see a patient they are more than willing to share what they may be feeling, however when I seem to offer what I think may be the answer it does not seem to be what they want to hear.
How many of us know someone or even for that matter ourselves, that may have an issue such as obesity, addiction, stress or just general aches and pains? Well, I see it daily and even feel it for that matter. But, why is it when seeking medical consultation there is always, well almost always resistance met with the prescription that may be of help. I constantly hear the same stories over and over, which some may consist of:
- I don't have time
- I'm not getting on medications
- It won't help me
- I can't quit
- It makes me sick
The excuses are endless, and are very frustrating from a provider's point of view. I can honestly say that for myself and other health-care providers something goes off in our brain sort of like this, "Well then what do you want from me?" But fortunately I hope I am speaking for others as well, we are compassionate and caring individuals that would truly like to make a difference and the hopes would be to make the patient ultimately feel and be better.
Unfortunately though, I don't have the magical and instantaneous cure, but I can offer some choices that may help or alleviate some of the problems. It really is a joint effort and I really do believe that if a person seeks help then we all should be accountable in trying to find the solution. I can try and make a suggestion in hopes that it will help, however if that will not work I believe that coming up with a plan together would be beneficial.
But again I stress that I encounter so much hesitancy in doing this that I often have to ask "Why do we seek help?" And yes I do have an answer for that at least I think I do. I am guessing that sometimes we just want to be heard and not really be given a response. With that said I still find it difficult as a medical provider not to offer some advice, so just appease me by at least saying "I will try."
How many of us know someone or even for that matter ourselves, that may have an issue such as obesity, addiction, stress or just general aches and pains? Well, I see it daily and even feel it for that matter. But, why is it when seeking medical consultation there is always, well almost always resistance met with the prescription that may be of help. I constantly hear the same stories over and over, which some may consist of:
- I don't have time
- I'm not getting on medications
- It won't help me
- I can't quit
- It makes me sick
The excuses are endless, and are very frustrating from a provider's point of view. I can honestly say that for myself and other health-care providers something goes off in our brain sort of like this, "Well then what do you want from me?" But fortunately I hope I am speaking for others as well, we are compassionate and caring individuals that would truly like to make a difference and the hopes would be to make the patient ultimately feel and be better.
Unfortunately though, I don't have the magical and instantaneous cure, but I can offer some choices that may help or alleviate some of the problems. It really is a joint effort and I really do believe that if a person seeks help then we all should be accountable in trying to find the solution. I can try and make a suggestion in hopes that it will help, however if that will not work I believe that coming up with a plan together would be beneficial.
But again I stress that I encounter so much hesitancy in doing this that I often have to ask "Why do we seek help?" And yes I do have an answer for that at least I think I do. I am guessing that sometimes we just want to be heard and not really be given a response. With that said I still find it difficult as a medical provider not to offer some advice, so just appease me by at least saying "I will try."
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fear of pain is my problem :)
Maybe people are trying to validate their own opinions. My wife faces similar issues in her health care clinic - especially where parents don't know why their kids aren't eating right and yet the parents are powerless to take away the sodas, candy, etc.
I really appreciated hearing a doctor's side of things. It gives me perspective as a patient. From my end, I can answer why I am sometimes resistant to treatment - in a word, fear. Plain and simple, especially after having had a terrible time with statin medications. Hearing your side really opens my eyes.
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