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How to Deal with Them
There are many types of annoying habits in this world. But there is perhaps no habit which incenses people more than "mooching." Moochers, also known as Freeloaders, are good for sucking out the life force of others who are just trying to find their own way in the world. The act of freeloading is often very disruptive, and is more than capable of ending long-term friendships. In any event, there are many different types of mooching, all of which cause people great distress. Whether or not you use your Moocher-Repellant at work, with family, or with friends, you'll want to pay attention to the ways people will attempt to snatch your resources.The Borrower
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HA!!! Now THAT is funny. It's like when people notice that others have a huge DVD collection, they automatically think it's Blockbuster! Amazing.
I'm with you Quiche. I have almost 1,000 DVDs and have lost so many to 'friends' who never return them. I even had a guy I met in the corridor of my building the other week call me today to see if he could come over and 'look thru my DVD collection to borrow some' - without of course me ever offering. er........no.
Wow, thanks Shanika! I had a male friend recently complain about the buddies he had who always seemed content on "sharing" his resources, however they were so aligned. At any rate, I imagined that a lot of people went through this. Developing a "No" list can ultimately save one's sanity. And you need not be seen as a heel afterwards. Thanks for your comments!!!
I am blessed to only have a handful (i.e. 2, counting my mom) friends so I no longer have to worry about this. I hit a pivotal point in my life when I realized I could simply let go of some ladies that were messing up my mojo. We have since rekindled on healthier terms, but that initial cut off was totally necessary. Great article.
This is a very wonderful article and it is so true. I am a big time movie buff, and have a few hundred dvd's. When my friends come by and ask to borrow one I tell them I don't loan out my movies, but they are more than welcome to come by another day and watch the movie with me. People who are "true" friends understand this and aren't offended.
I agree with that too, Jennifer. I think it's the friend who constantly seeks advice, but never takes it t---that irritates some people. Thanks for reading!
It's very well that the "complaining friend" isn't shopping for advice. Most often, when women talk to others about their problems, they aren't looking for solutions, and frequently become offended when offered them. They are looking for someone with whom they can vent and relate.
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