Long Distance Relationship Advice: How to Make the Most Out of Your Weekend Visits

What to Do when Your Long Distance Boyfriend or Girlfriend Comes to See You

By Angela Epps, published Jan 25, 2008
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It's finally happening! After what seems like forever apart, you are now planning what to do when your long distance boyfriend or girlfriend comes to see you. If you keep this advice in mind, you will know how to make the most out of your weekend visits.

How To Make The Most Out Of Your Weekend Visits: Make Plans
The first piece of relationship advice on what to do when your long distance boyfriend or girlfriend comes to see you is to make plans. You may be thinking that, after all this time apart, all you need is to be together and things will be great. But after awhile, conversations may run a little dry and the both of you will want to do something. Make sure to plan at least one night or day where you can go sightseeing.

If they have never been to your city, show them some of the places that you love to hang out. This will give them more of an insight to who you are, by showing them how you spend your time, and you can bond over shared activities.

If they have already visited you before and you know of a certain places that they have enjoyed in the past, make sure to include those in your itinerary. But, don't forget to put new places that you have scoped out on the list as well. Show them why you love where you live so much. Maybe they will start to love it too!

How To Make The Most Out Of Your Weekend Visits: Plan Flexible
Along with making plans, another piece of relationship advice on what to do when your long distance boyfriend or girlfriend comes to visit you, is to make sure you plan flexible. You may be dying to show them the great museum that you found or to take them to the hottest new nightclub but they may have other ideas in mind. This is especially true on their first night with you. Along with not having seen you in awhile and just wanting to talk, they may just simply be tired from their trip. Don't overload them with a strict schedule of places that they have to go with you.

Takeaways
  • When your boyfriend or girlfriend comes to visit you from a long distance, don't over plan.
  • How to make the most out of your time together is all about making sure you have flexible plans.
  • A few bad visits is one thing, all visits ending bad is another. Make sure you are communicating.
Did You Know?
Quality time together can be more beneficial to a couple's relationship than the actual quantity of hours that they get to spend together. Make yours count!
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