The Reality of Being a Wedding Planner: Dream Job or a Nightmare?

What is it about being a wedding planner that makes so many girls dream about it? Is it the glamorous idea of being in the spotlight at important events? Is it the fact that Jennifer Lopez portrayed one in The Wedding Planner? Is it the idea of spending someone else's money on extravagant food and decorations? It may be all of the above and more. But is becoming a wedding planner a viable option for a career? Read on to find out my experiences as a wedding planner and tips to help you decide if this is your future.

What is a wedding planner?

A wedding planner or wedding consultant can do different things. The job description varies from planner to planner and even from wedding to wedding. I work for a corporation that includes wedding and event planning advice as part of their service. Many wedding planners are independent and self employed. Some planners manage every detail of the event from helping the bride find her dress and choose vendors to resolving disputes with family members. Other planners just help with small tasks or oversee the event just on the day it is happening. There is no clear definition of what the wedding planner must do. When hiring a wedding planner, brides must decide what needs they have and pick someone who is best equipped to fill those needs.

Who hires wedding planners?

It is a misconception that only wealthy brides and celebrities use wedding planners. Almost every bride would like a wedding planner. Planning a large event without any prior experience is daunting. The expense for a wedding planner can vary greatly depending on what services they provide. A good wedding planner can actually save a bride money because they often get discounts from vendors and know what is necessary and what can be cut out of the budget.

How do I become a wedding planner?

Bride and Groom

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