How to Enjoy Prom Night Without a Date

By Sophie, published Jan 29, 2008
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Prom night is one of the highlights of many teenagers' lives as they look forward to picking out a dress or a suit and who they will ask out as their date for the evening. But is it possible to enjoy prom night without a date? There is so much pressure for teenagers to date and to be paired off at younger and younger ages, which would explain why many teenagers are anxious about even going to their prom unless they have a date with them for the evening. But the truth of the matter is that teenagers who are single can still have an enjoyable time even if they do not have a date to accompany them to the prom.

Invite Friends to Join You

Prom night gives teenagers a chance to see friends, but how about actually making plans for a group of friends to join you as you go to the prom? A group of friends can offer safety in numbers as well as helping single teenagers feel less isolated as they turn up to their prom without a date. Turning up with no friends or a date can lead to a very boring prom experience, but turning up to the prom with friends will help immensely. Don't just arrange to meet at the prom location. Invite friends over and help each other pick out accessories, shoes, hairstyles and so on. Getting ready is half the excitement.

Don't Focus So Much on Couples

Unless you want to have a miserable evening, do not focus all of your attention on friends or acquaintances you know from school who are paired off with a date. The chances are, they do not even know their date very well and they are only together for appearance's sake. You cannot tell just by looking at a couple if they are having a great time. It could all be for show. Do you really want to ruin your enjoyment of the prom by focusing on others all evening?

Granted, showing up to the prom without a date to prop you up might seem rather strange and difficult to pull off. But there is no need to succumb to peer pressure by taking someone along just so you can "fit in" with your peers. It should not matter too much that you do not have a date with you for the prom. It is still possible to have an enjoyable time at the prom with a group of friends who truly have your best interests at heart.

Takeaways
  • Invite friends to join you and show up together
  • Do not focus so much on couples. It will only make you long for what you do not have
  • You can still have an enjoyable evening without a date to prop you up
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My boyfriend at the time (my husband now) was overseas during my prom. My friend and I went for about five minutes and then thought "hey, what's the point" and left.

Posted on 02/04/2008 at 2:02:52 PM

 
Great advice! I think that some girls can easily enjoy prom a lot more without a date, personally.

Posted on 01/30/2008 at 8:01:14 PM

 
Great advice. A person doesn't have to go with a date to have a good time. It's all about attitude!

Posted on 01/29/2008 at 8:01:19 PM

 
Yep, good stuff! If only I'd thought of all of this back then!

Posted on 01/29/2008 at 7:01:00 PM

 
I appreciate all the comments. I remember when I attended my prom the whole focus seemed to be on people's outfits and who their date was! It can really make teenagers feel left out if they attend the prom without a date. Sophie

Posted on 01/29/2008 at 6:01:09 PM

 
Congrats on being one of the Top 1000 CPs. Prom night shound't be focus so much on couples. Too many kids are left out because they don't have dates. My 9th grade granddaughter was invited to the prom, last year, by a senior in one of her elective class. There were so many seniors who didn't go because they had no dates. Some went wityhout dates and said they had a wonderful time. Prom night should be a fun night for all graduates and not so much focus on couples. An excellent write. Sophie.

Posted on 01/29/2008 at 6:01:08 PM

 
I didn't have a date for the prom; he had to work. But me and a couple friends went together and we had a blast. We got to dance with other guys who didn't have dates (handsome dudes, too) and we left when we wanted. We had a blast.

Posted on 01/29/2008 at 4:01:48 PM

 
Great advice!

Posted on 01/29/2008 at 1:01:53 PM

 
I guess if you have a few friends to join you it wouldn't be that bad !!...seems a little sad..Great Advice !!

Posted on 01/29/2008 at 12:01:07 PM

 
This is an excellent piece for anyone who's going to the prom stag! It just goes to show, you don't have to have a date to enjoy the evening. My date for my senior prom had a curfew and had to leave early. But I stayed and had a great time with friends. :-)

Posted on 01/29/2008 at 10:01:29 AM

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