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Can Holding Hands Relieve Stress and Anxiety?

By Kristie Leong M.D., published Jan 31, 2008
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There's no doubt we live in a complicated, fast paced. It should come as no surprise that many Americans feel the weight of stress in their everyday lives, zapping their energy and causing them to feel anxious on a daily basis. Many stressed out people turn to prescription drugs and even alcohol to reduce stress levels. Would it surprise you to learn that something as simple as holding hands with your spouse can be a significant source of stress relief for women? Could the panacea for worry and anxiety be as simple as learning how to hold hands more frequently?

In an interesting study carried out by James Coan PhD, female study subjects were given low level electric shocks to create tension and stress. While the shocks were being delivered, MRI scans were taken of the women's brains to record stress levels induced by the shocks. In one group of female test subjects, the women were allowed to hold their husband's hand, while the other group braved the shocks without the benefit of hand holding. Upon studying the brains scans, the experimenters found the group who held their husband's hand during the shocks had reduced levels of stress as manifested by the MRI results.

It seems that the simple act of holding hands reduces stress levels by making a woman feel as if she's protected from threat by a caring partner. This therapeutic benefit of hand holding is consistent with previous studies that have shown that hugging and cuddling can reduce stress levels. There may actually be a scientific basis for the stress reducing properties of a hand holding or a cuddle. When couples cuddle, it's been shown that release of a hormone called oxytocin increases which is sometimes known as the bonding or "cuddling" hormone. Could hand holding also cause release of oxytocin or other biochemicals that can soothe the effects of stress?

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First, Kim I don't think it's the simple act of holding hands that causes the affairs. People just don't decide to develop affairs just by holding someone's hand it's usually loneliness or other problems in the marriage that is the underlying factor. Perhaps there is a connection because regular church goers have to see each other often or it's the desire for the affair that's caused the "coincidental" holding of hands between lovers not the other way around. Second, it does not seem that the act itself releases stress but the emotional association one has when holding hands. Perhaps there is a third variable and cross cultural research should be done since not all cultures practice displays of affection like kissing or holding hands. Such people would yield different results because they don't have the same association with holding hands. Thus, it seems to a be psychological reason rather than a physical reason.

Posted on 02/18/2008 at 12:02:46 AM

 
very lovely read and i love holding hands with my hubby. i feel so secure with him and it does help with my stress.

Posted on 02/03/2008 at 8:02:13 AM

 
I think its safe for me to say--I have more pleasure keeping my hands in my pocket--its a safer venue for me to take--nice article though--Next time someone wants to hold my hand--their gonna get this: Woa there baby"

Posted on 02/01/2008 at 5:02:29 PM

 
Very interesting read! :-)

Posted on 02/01/2008 at 1:02:39 PM

 
FANTASTIC piece, here. Thanks for backing up the benefits of love with science. It is often repeated that when couples regularly greet eachother with a kiss they extend their life span..thanks for writing this. Excellent correlation with the prescription use. This should be featured.

Posted on 02/01/2008 at 6:02:54 AM

 
Yes, great job with this one. I do indeed love to hold my hubby's hand and hold me close and it all disappears. Thanks for this one.

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 11:01:01 PM

 
Beautiful article !

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 8:01:58 PM

 
This makes sence to me. :-)

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 3:01:32 PM

 
I love this article! The simplest things really mean a lot.

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 2:01:12 PM

 
Wonderful piece and I know that I feel less stressed when I hold hands with my hubby or children!

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 12:01:07 PM

 
Very interesting. I never would've thought of that!

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 9:01:11 AM

 
I think holding hands and just general cuddling is very helpful in relationships and marriages.

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 9:01:30 AM

 
Interesting, Kristie. Two key variables here are holding hands and spouse. What about holding hands, generally - with an intimate someone, with a platonic someone, with a stranger? Also, what about other forms of physical interplay? Hugging, yes. What about kissing? Sexual play? Foreplay without intercourse? Intercourse without orgasm? Orgasm in any context? "Afterglow" play? Without any research data to back me up (just some field research...smile), I favor emotional bonding as the underlying, key variable. Stressfully yours (smile), Michael

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 8:01:23 AM

 
I love this Kristie !!... ..how just a simple gesture of holding someone hand that is under stress (we all are from time to time) can make you feel so much better....Excellent !!!!

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 8:01:02 AM

 
This is not surprising to me. Holding hands is a very powerful thing. In fact, as pastors, my husband and I often suggest that folks of the opposite sex be careful about spending too much time together holding hands in prayer. We have seen many affairs develop simply by folks holding hands in an innocent manner. A great read!

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 8:01:49 AM

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