Top Ten Things Women Should Know About Men

...As If We Didn't Know Already.

There are tons of books and talk shows which dedicate their efforts to educating women on the mysterious ways of the male species. But really, if women took the time to examine the wants of their counterparts, they'd be in for quite a few surprises. Take a look: 

10- ALL BLACK SHOES LOOK THE SAME TO HIM. -   Of course this may be somewhat of an exaggeration. But face it, Ladies...Men typically are not offered as many styles in the same color as women are. Therefore, that strappy black slingback, is EXACTLY the same as the peeptoe black slingback. 

9- "HOW WAS YOUR DAY?" doesn't mean "How was your day?" - As insensitive as it sounds, when men ask this question, they typically do not want a play-by-play of your entire day. Quite frankly, it's boring. And unless you have something specific you want to discuss with him, he really doesn't care about your co-worker's son's Little League Game.

8- INITIATE SEX. - Yes, sometimes men want women to be a bit more aggressive in the bedroom, especially if they tend to make the first move most of the time.  Men do enjoy a chase.  But after being together for a while, they need to feel wanted as well. Initiate sex a bit more often, and you could see dramatic improvements in your sex life. 

7- "NOTHING'S WRONG" means, nothing is wrong. - Sometimes that quiet, brooding type of man is simply having a quiet moment to himself.  Women are the ones who ordinarily like to discuss and plan the details of almost everything.  But men are more hands on. When they are quiet, it doesn't necessarily mean that something is wrong - only that they are thinking. 

6- "I LOVE YOU" isn't always said with words. - Once women understand that men show love in a variety of ways, women will happier.  Recognizing loving gestures will definitely help get the point across. Sometimes those three little words are being screamed loud and clear, with actions instead.