Basic Speed Seduction Terminology: Words to Get Your Head into "The Game"

The speed seduction subculture has quite a bit of lingo and slang. If you're having trouble navigating speed seduction forums, your own sex life, or you just need a way to frame and understand your dating game, then remember these terms so you don't look like and act like a common AFC.

AFC: Average Frustrated Chump. Unfortunately, a lot of guys fall into this category. An AFC knows little about speed seduction and what it takes to pick up or maintain a partner. Commonly, they'll refer to intimate encounters as "getting lucky".

One-itus: A common mistake for the AFC to fall into. One-itus occurs when a person becomes obsessed with a single other person. This gives off a sense of neediness that repels the potential mate. This invariably turns into unrequited love. Often, people with one-itus are used for their attention, but never fulfilled.

Sarge: Going out into a social area with the intent of performing speed seduction or pick up. This phrase was coined by Ross Jeffries and is named after one of his cats (he loves cats).

HBx: Hot Body (x). Uses the well-known rating system of 1-10. There are more profane (and misogynistic) meanings of this term.

LTR: Long Term Relationship. Another variation is MLTR: Multiple Long Term Relationships.

FB: A person with which you have a sexual relationship, but no other expected commitments.

GFTOW: Go FInd Ten Other Women. This is a common prescription for One-itus. If you are still interested in the first person after you've been with ten others, then it might be possible to approach her with a clear head and a sense of confidence. When you can fulfill ten other women, then you'll know exactly what you need to fulfill the first one.

NLP: Neuro-Linguistic Programming. In a sense, it's like hypnotizing someone while they are fully conscious. It provides a way to speaking to someone's unconscious mind, by using ambiguities, implanting suggestions and images, while also occupying their conscious mind. There is a lot of information on NLP, and much of speed seduction and pickup is based off of it.