Roy Scheider Dies of Multiple Myeloma at 75

The Truth About Multiple Myeloma

By Beth Inman, published Feb 11, 2008
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Roy Scheider, a popular actor who was best known for his award winning portrayal of a police chief in the thriller, Jaws, has died at the early age of 75. Mr. Scheider suffered from Multiple Myeloma, a cancer that begins in the body's plasma cells.

A painful cancer, Myeloma begins in the cells of the bone marrow and spreads to the bones. According to MedicineNet.com "myeloma begins when a plasma cell becomes abnormal. The abnormal cell divides to make copies of itself. The new cells divide again and again, making more and more abnormal cells. The abnormal plasma cells are myeloma cells. Myeloma cells make antibodies called M proteins.In time, myeloma cells collect in the bone marrow. They may crowd out normal blood cells. Myeloma cells also collect in the solid part of the bone. The disease is called "multiple myeloma" because it affects many bones. (If myeloma cells collect in only one bone, the single mass is called a plasmacytoma.)"

Multiple Myeloma is sneaky. They say that if you catch it early it is a curable cancer. The problem is, it is hard to "catch early". At least it was in our case. My Father was bedridden for several years with complications of Diabetes, and my Mother was his primary caregiver for all of those years. He was a big man, and being bedridden, required total care. My Mother is the one that turned him in bed. Very often several times a day. It is hard work caring for someone, so when she complained to her doctor of achy bones, he and she both assumed that it was just from the stress and challenges of caring for my father. He prescribed medication and sent her home.

This continued for a few months, her pain was getting more severe, but thinking it was from taking care of my dad, she hired someone to help, rather than heading back to the doctor. So often we make excuses for our aches and pains, when often it is a warning that there is something going on, and this is what she did. Until her arm broke.

Roy Scheider Dies of Multiple Myeloma at 75
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MY MOTHER

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Takeaways
  • A painful cancer, Myeloma begins in the cells of the bone marrow
  • They say if you catch it early it is a curable cancer
  • You can receive a stem cell transplantation or radiation therapy.
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how sad. what a mean dr. he could have been nicer about it. i no you miss your mom. i can hear it in your words.

Posted on 04/30/2008 at 8:04:05 PM

 
I am so sad for you. I agree with jcorn. This is excellent writing and had me in tears as well

Posted on 04/30/2008 at 9:04:10 AM

 
I lost my father at the ripe old age of 15 to MM. He died 30 days after being diagnosed. In 1986 there was no treatment. Feel free to check out my story on my CP page. I'm glat there are some treatments now but as far as I can find there is no cure.

Posted on 03/23/2008 at 7:03:14 PM

 
I discovered this thanks to Donald Pennington's interview. This floored me. Calling this "excellent writing" is an understatement. It is beyond that. I had tears in my eyes, could hardly see, by the end.

Posted on 03/17/2008 at 6:03:06 PM

 
Thank you for sharing this. I am sorry that your mother had to struggle with this. This was very informative and heartfelt.

Posted on 03/17/2008 at 3:03:46 PM

 
Wow, what a grueling experience! I'm so sorry what you went through with your parents. I dunno, I think many MDs aren't as adept at their bedside manner techniques. There's no excuse for acting like that, pronouncing a death sentence followed by an about face & exit. Anyhow, your article was extremely informative and interesting. Thanks! KIM

Posted on 03/04/2008 at 8:03:18 PM

 
Please understand that Doctors have feelings too. It is necessary for them to relate things to patients void of emotion so that they can do their jobs.

Posted on 02/19/2008 at 8:02:16 AM

 
How sad. I am sorry for you loosing your Mother.

Posted on 02/19/2008 at 7:02:55 AM

 
Patsy..I have two comments... #1 it has been 11 years since that Dr walked in your door..CONGRATULATIONS! #2 I wonder if it was the same doctor?

Posted on 02/11/2008 at 7:02:34 PM

 
I was a patient at the Mayo clinic in Jacksonville,fla. The doctor came into the room and in one breath she stood by the door and said "I was right on two possible diagnoses . You have a brain tumor and you have multiple sclerosia (MS) 2/14/97 Doctor's can be unfeeling.

Posted on 02/11/2008 at 7:02:12 PM

 
I searched for news about Roy Scheider and found your post. I was sad to read about your loss. My case of Multiple Myeloma was discovered 2 years ago. I could write about that but rather I found several books helpful. "How We Die" Sherwin B. Nuland. He has a chapter on cancer deaths. "Secret History War on Cancer" Devra Davis. Her father died from MM.

Posted on 02/11/2008 at 6:02:22 PM

 
Hi. I am very sorry for you. I lost my mother to the same cancer.

Posted on 02/11/2008 at 6:02:59 PM

 
I also wanted to add that I am also very aware of your struggle with your Mother's illness. I lost my Dad nine weeks before my Mother to multiple complications of Type II Diabetes. My Husband's Father died just a few years ago after suffering with Alzheimers for 10 years. As difficult as it has all been, it makes us very aware of what a precious thing life is, and how very precious our time is with our parents.

Posted on 02/11/2008 at 3:02:16 PM

 
Thank you for your comments O. I was afraid that people would think I was being ugly towards the Dr, blaming him for my Mother's illness. Not so, I was and still am, very angry with the insensitive manner in which he delivered his diagnosis.

Posted on 02/11/2008 at 3:02:08 PM

 
Your experience isn't an isolated one. My Mother experienced Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, Diabetes Type II, a heart problem, and very painful advanced arthritis which made walking difficult. I took her to a routine eye exam one day. During the procedure, I pointed out a small spot near one of Mom's eyes which she had mentioned to me. The doctor glanced at it and blurted, "Oh, that's skin cancer". When my Mother got out of the chair she nearly fell to the floor. What an insensitive clod. I was shocked at the manner in which he handled this. We never returned.

Posted on 02/11/2008 at 2:02:07 PM

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