13 Tips for Speed Seduction, Flirting, and Dating

Speed seduction is a topic that is getting a lot of attention. An air of excitement and taboo surrounds it. Maybe you've heard of Ross Jeffries's speed seduction seminars. You may have seen or heard of "The Pick Up Artist" on VH1 in which Mystery, a pickup guru, teaches "AFCs" (average frustrated chumps) to flirt with beautiful women and become pick-up artists.

There are many interesting social implications to the art of speed seduction (also known as "game"). The more I study the techniques of speed seduction, flirtation, and dating, the more I realize that these techniques can be used in any situation, whether it be flirtation and casual dating, friendly encounters, or even business or work-related interactions. The arts of seduction and flirtation are the oldest in the world.

If you're having trouble dating (and we could all use some help with dating), here are some speed seduction techniques that will put you on the path to becoming a pick-up artist. Learn the basics to flirting, dating, and seducing anyone you desire:

Establish Rapport and Interest

--Mirroring

Pick-up artists understand that most of our communication is established through body language. As you mirror someone's body language, it will be subconsciously picked up (by the other person) that you have the same internal state (emotions, beliefs, ideas, patterns).

Remember, this is not an exercise in mimicry. Do not repeat their gestures and body language exactly, but close enough so that he/she can subconsciously pick it up.

The pick-up artist will remember which gestures express specific internal states and will mirror them to increase the subject's level of comfort and sexual excitement.

--Maintain Eye Contact

Eye contact shows interest and confidence. It is a key element in flirtation. You don't have to stare the person down, but make sure that they know you're there. It communicates that you're not too afraid or weak to be dating them. The general rule is to make as much eye contact as your date or pick-up is comfortable with.