Reasons You May Not Be Having Sex

When new couples first get together and when couples just get married before the kids and careers take off, they usually have sex all the time. If they are not having it everyday, they are not going more than a day or two without it. So what happens to a couple that makes them loose their frequency? How can a couple go from having sex a few times in a week to a few times in a year? What has happened to that couple? There are many reasons and many things that can go on in a relationship that affects the number of times a couple will have sex.

One of the main reasons couples have sex less frequently or stop having it all together is that they are just way too busy. When you factor in two full time jobs, children who have to go to baseball practice and ballet classes, and housework, there is not a whole lot of time or energy left for any extra curricular activities. Besides being dog tired and not in the mood at the end of the day, the stress of a busy life can shake up your normal balance of hormones and make your sexual response system go haywire. The only thing you can do for this situation is to make time for sex. Even if you have to schedule it every now and then, do it. You and your partner need that emotional and physical connection.

Another major reason couples start to have smaller sex lives is the bedroom karma. If your room consists of a bed and lights, there is not much else to do in there other than have sex. However, if you have a TV, a laptop, or some other distracting device you are less likely to have sex. You are too busy playing with your technology toys rather than playing with each other. Do yourself and your partner a favor and leave the technology in the living room or office, your sex life will thank you.