The Advantages and Disadvantages of Trial Marriage or "Live-In"

By Lets, published Feb 20, 2008
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Well, people have different opinions about certain things and one might work good for them but not for others. If there are advantages in this trial marriage situation, more disadvantages are obviously present. Couples who have no commitment to each other, will go for trial marriage or just live-in. And if their being together will work good, then decide to get married later, but if not, they are free to look for another one.

Here are common reasons of people who have been into this situation which they considered advantage for them.

No expenses to worry about the wedding party. Most lovers who are overwhelmed with each other's feelings and emotions, can not wait for a long time to be together. To them, saving money for wedding preparation takes a lot of effort and it's a long wait. Why giving themselves a hard time when they can be together without a wedding ceremony?

Since men have the bigger responsibility for the wedding expenses, they will be glad if the woman agrees to live with them without getting married. it is advantageous to the man who is not stable financially. No more problem tor him to raise money for the wedding expenses. Anyway, they can live simply as long as they are together and they love each other. No matter what the people say it doesn't matter to them.

No legal problems to take care of. If couples can not get along well with each other, it is easy to separate ways anytime they want and they're free to look for another with no legal problems to worry about. They are legally free to marry. It is that easy, and many would prefer to have this kind of life specially those who have no commitments they are sold out to this idea.

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Well written. As for myself, I'm never getting married again.

Posted on 04/16/2008 at 8:04:21 PM

 
I agree with her.I think that a couple decide to live together before they get marrieged is good for them.They can understand more each other.then they will decide should they get marrieged or not.And if they cannot together it is easier to say "goodbye".

Posted on 03/16/2008 at 9:03:57 PM

 
every person have the right to do what they want to........

Posted on 03/06/2008 at 4:03:25 AM

 
you're exactly right.. but do you know that there are many who called themselves Christians but still doing this? thanks for the comment!!!!

Posted on 03/05/2008 at 9:03:05 AM

 
This kind of relationship is not good for a christian people.

Posted on 02/27/2008 at 4:02:46 AM

 
Tough decision for couples to make...but in the end hopefully love will prevail married or not :)

Posted on 02/26/2008 at 10:02:12 AM

 
Right!!! I agree that marriage is a better option....

Posted on 02/20/2008 at 10:02:26 PM

 
I know that many people prefer to live together without getting married, which is up to individual couples to decide for themselves. But I think that marriage is a better option. Sophie

Posted on 02/20/2008 at 9:02:23 PM

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