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Homeschool Myths: Homeschool Parents Are Just Lazy

By Momie Tullottes, published Feb 22, 2008
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As the concept of homeschooling continues to ease back into the mainstream, where it began, more and more questions and myths seem to follow. There is a great deal of controversy and confusion surrounding what exactly homeschool is, where it originated, what motivates people to choose homeschooling, and what may or may not be involved in the daily activities of a home school. In this, and other articles on the myths of homeschool, I plan to explore and help shed some light on some of these myths surrounding homeschool. My findings will come from personal experience and sometimes be combined with research studies or other evidence.

A common myth that seems to follow many parents who decide to homeschool their kids is the concept of laziness. It has been my experience that strangers often perceive parents who homeschool as being too lazy to bring their children to school. I say strangers because in my experience, even when people who are close to homeschooling families have questions, they usually don't center around laziness.

I'm sorry if this offends anyone, but the first time I heard this question, I had to stifle a laugh. Well, at least I tried to anyway. Eventually, it did accidentally come out. How could taking on the responsibility of a teacher, in addition to normal parenting duties, be seen as lazy? Still, I listened to the misinformed woman express her concerns.

In a friendly disagreement with my actions, she was concerned that because I wanted to homeschool my children, that meant I really was just tired of transporting them back and forth from school, as if teaching them was somehow easier than that. I sincerely hope that she doesn't treat the difficult tasks her child's teachers face every day with the same disregard.

Takeaways
  • Teaching is anything but laziness and it's definitely much harder than dropping them off at school.
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How could taking on the responsibility of a teacher, in addition to normal parenting duties, be seen as lazy?
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I don't think my mother was ever lazy! When we started homeschooling in September 1993, she and my dad had five children: a 9-year-old (me), a 7-year-old, a 5-year-old, a 3-year old, and a 1-year-old, plus she was five months pregnant. This meant she had to plan lessons for three children, plus ensure the other two didn't kill each other while she was teaching. Eventually, it got to a point where she was planning lessons for six children! Plus, she was making meals, supervising music practices, driving people to music lessons, doing the grocery shopping, taking care of the yard, keeping our lives organized, etc. (We kids did the housework-each of us had a daily assignment.)

Posted on 06/03/2008 at 1:06:50 PM

 
Thanks everyone. Great point Nicole. That's something I've noticed, too. Look for a future myth article somewhat related to that. :-)

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 9:03:57 PM

 
Nice Article!

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 8:03:24 PM

 
I think there are always a few homeschoolers that give a bad rep for the ones who do a great job. The ones who do a poor job tend to put thier kids in public schools around 4th-5th grade, and it is sad to see how little these children know. Homeschoolers who do a great job continue the education and no one sees how great those kids are.

Posted on 03/14/2008 at 8:03:58 PM

 
:D

Posted on 03/14/2008 at 1:03:41 PM

 
I also had to stifle a hearty laugh. Homeschool moms are my heores. Not only does it take a huge amount of effort to prepare to teach your children, it also means that you are with your kids, often around the clock. It takes nerves of steel and determination, but the payoffs are tremendous! Great article, and I love the picture of your little girl on your profile page! Adorable! Momie Tullottes for President! LOL!

Posted on 03/03/2008 at 5:03:35 PM

 
Excellent points Shanika. Thanks for sharing. :-)

Posted on 02/29/2008 at 6:02:21 AM

 
Agreed! Parents who homeschool work much harder than parents who don't. But it shouldn't matter - it isn't a competition. Not everyone is patient or lucky enough to be able to homeschool their child. Instead, they should be as involved as time allows at their child's school. Often parents attack others because they feel (or know) that they, themselves, are incompetant.

Posted on 02/29/2008 at 5:02:21 AM

 
Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts everyone. You're all right. It does take tons of effort to homeschool. :-)

Posted on 02/28/2008 at 5:02:52 AM

 
Personally, I've never had the opportunity to have children to 'home-school', but I have observed my cousin teaching her children. Hmm, what is this myth about laziness? It's not easy being a parent and home schooling simultaneously. It takes a lot of time, energy and patience. I'm glad someone brought this up. Great article!

Posted on 02/28/2008 at 5:02:50 AM

 
That is just ridiculous to assume that a parent is lazy because they homeschool. Some people!

Posted on 02/27/2008 at 9:02:19 PM

 
Homeschooling is a very time consuming endeavor. Far from a lazy pursuit! Thanks for a great article.

Posted on 02/27/2008 at 4:02:52 PM

 
I think anyone who homeschools children is far from lazy and anyone who thinks otherwise probably doesn't have kids themselves. I can only imagine how much work I'd need to do if I homeschooled all 5 of my kids. I have my hands full during the day with just my 2 youngest ones at home:)

Posted on 02/25/2008 at 11:02:35 PM

 
What an insane myth. A lazy person would certainly send their kids away all day instead of taking the time to teach them in person.

Posted on 02/25/2008 at 10:02:37 PM

 
I've never heard of this myth before! I don't see how anyone could possibly think that homeschool parents are lazy. I think that teaching children and parenting is probably a lot more difficult than many other professions. Great job dispelling this myth!

Posted on 02/25/2008 at 9:02:41 PM

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