10 Foreplay Tips: How to Better Satisfy a Woman in the Bedroom

By Abby Johns, published Feb 28, 2008
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It seems like men can be ready to have sex, both mentally and physically, at the drop of a hat. This, however, usually isn't the case with women. Women usually require more "warming up" before they are ready for sex, both mentally and physically. If you want to better satisfy a woman in the bedroom, then you might need to tune up your foreplay skills.

Foreplay Tip #1 How to Better Satisfy a Woman in the Bedroom: Don't immediately go for the hot spots.

Going straight for a woman's breasts, neck, or other highly erogenous zones is not a good way to kick off foreplay. Gently rubbing her arms, stomach, legs, back, and hair is a much better way to get her warmed up to the idea of having sex. Going straight for a woman's breasts just screams desperation and selfishness.

Foreplay Tip #2 How to Better Satisfy a Woman in the Bedroom: Take your time before undressing her.

Anticipation is one of your best friends when it comes to foreplay. If she is wondering every time that your hands wander to the top of her pants or the bottom of her shirt if this will be the time you will start to undress her, then she is sure to be lying on pins and needles, which will heighten her senses, making all subsequent touches that much more sensual.

Foreplay Tip #3 How to Better Satisfy a Woman in the Bedroom: Once you do undress her, remember to make it an experience.

Instead of simply taking her shirt off, pull it up over her eyes and kiss her, not being able to see where you are going next will make her super sensitive to your touch, take advantage of that. Take each layer, shirt, undershirt, bra, pants, underwear, even socks, off one at a time. Think of each layer of clothing as another opportunity to make her squirm.

Foreplay Tip #4 How to Better Satisfy a Woman in the Bedroom: Light and gentle wins out over rough and fast.

While you are kissing all over, and you should take the time to kiss all over, make sure that you are doing it in a light and gentle way. Going to fast or too hard isn't a good idea when her body is in a heightened sense of arousal, it might cause her to feel like she is being tickled, which will lead to laughing instead of moaning.

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It's bullshit. Women love just having it rammed in when it's still dry and closed

Posted on 06/10/2008 at 1:06:32 PM

 
i'm emailing this to my boyfriend!!

Posted on 03/11/2008 at 1:03:26 PM

 
Should be required reading lol

Posted on 03/08/2008 at 8:03:17 PM

 
Very well written and very good tips or any man to follow!!!

Posted on 03/01/2008 at 4:03:27 PM

 
Woohoooooo. This is going straight in front of my husbands face. Just joking. this was great and I am glad that my husband treats me as good as this article will treat women who's men read it.

Posted on 03/01/2008 at 1:03:27 AM

 
ha!!! I could never write this. glad you did

Posted on 02/28/2008 at 7:02:57 PM

 
Great job Abby!

Posted on 02/28/2008 at 2:02:01 PM

 
Wow, you go girl. Let them all know. These are wonderful tips. I guess it could go both ways, but what I love is you speak from a womens point of view (in case the want to know). Great job. Love it.

Posted on 02/28/2008 at 10:02:50 AM

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