Tips on Preparing Your Toddler for a New Baby

By Christie Silvers, published Sep 24, 2006
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Are you currently pregnant? Are you looking for ways to prepare your toddler for the new sibling that they will be receiving? Preparing your toddler for a new baby does not have to be as difficult as you might think.

A new baby is going to mean a lot of changes in your household. Both for you and your toddler. Luckily these changes don't have to happen all of a sudden. Thank goodness for those nine long months of pregnancy. Those nine months allow for an abundance of time for you to use while preparing your toddler for the lifestyle change that will occur in their household when the baby arrives.

If you have very young children then it is probably a good idea to wait for the pregnancy announcement until closer to your delivery time. This does not mean that you shouldn't be preparing them sooner though. Preparation for a new sibling can be done with many very simple things. Toddlers are very intrigued with babies. So if you have any friends or family members that have babies it would be a good idea to let your toddler spend time with the baby. Toddlers love to ooohhh and aaahhhh over small babies. Especially when they see you doing it. My toddler will even giggle and kiss pictures of babies in magazines.

Here are a few things you could do before you announce the pregnancy to your toddler.

If your toddler is still using the crib and you would like to use the same crib for the new baby, then it is a good idea to make the transition to a toddler bed long before the baby arrives. If you wait until there is a screaming needy baby in the house then your toddler could feel like all the changes are because of the baby and in turn start to resent his or her newest sibling. Toddlers are still so very young and they just don't understand that this little baby is just an innocent bystander. So if you want to transition your toddler to another bed (or bedroom) it is a good idea to do it several months before the new baby arrives. By doing this you will be helping your toddler become very adjusted to the new bed long before the baby arrives. This will make for easier bedtimes for a tired new mommy to deal with in the months to come.

Tips on Preparing Your Toddler for a New Baby

My middle daughter when our youngest was born.

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Takes me back . . . When my oldest stepped into my hospital room to meet the new sibling, I don't know which pleased her more: The new baby to dress up, or the brightly-wrapped gift with a tag on it that read, "To Big Sis, Love Little Sis" that was waiting next to the baby.

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