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Is Boot Camp Right for Your Troubled Teen?

Boot Camp Discipline: Is it Too Harsh?

By Emma S., published Jul 26, 2005
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After endless rounds of skipping school, discipline problems, even trouble with the law, many parents resort to sending their child to boot camp. Most parents will try just about anything when their sons or daughters become problem children but after punishments, counseling and even incarceration some teens still pose a serious threat to their families and the outside world. These teens usually have a vast supply of anger and no matter what the expected punishment, they continue hurting those who love them the most. At one point there is no longer any hope of sitting the child down and talking to him about his behavior or threatening him with more severe punishments.

No matter what went wrong, and who blames whom, the teen desperately needs help to hopefully change him or her into a productive citizen before they end up doing life behind bars. And with some of these kids, misbehaving is only the beginning. Parents have reported beatings at the hands of their own children, crimes inflicted on neighbors or members of the family, and a total disregard for any authority.

Although many parents have reported a major change in their child after having spent some time at a boot camp the changes are often short-lived. Removing a child from his world and placing him in a world of screaming, cursing, belittling and hard, physical activity is the ticket for some teens to change their attitudes, but for many, the former attitude returns after only a few days or a few weeks back home. Even worse, many of the kids learn the tactics used at the boot camp and practice the screaming, cursing and threatening to harass family and strangers after being released.

Takeaways
  • Boot camps use harsh tactics to discipline your child.
  • Alternative boot camps try methods such as praise.
  • Some boot camps have been known to drive a child too hard.
Did You Know?
Teens have actually died as the result of certain tactics used in particular boot camps.
Resources
  • Stop Negotiating With Your Teen: Strategies for Parenting Your Angry, Manipulative, Moody, or Depressed Adolescent - by Janet Sasson EdgetteWhen You're Living With a Troubled Teen - by David, Dr Hawkins
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I tend to disrespect authority and most of the time don't give a f**k, but I do realize that this isn't the right way to life. I want to go to boot camp and have convinced my mother to let me go. But.....here's the thing, we aren't the richest people, in fact we live below the poverty level. So, if anybody knows of a low cost, short term boot camp in California, I would appreciate it if you could contact me at kittensgalore@myway.com Also, my grandparent adopted me, so if anybody knows if there is something that could get me a discount because of that benefactor, that would be great. Thank you all in advance.

Posted on 09/07/2008 at 1:09:26 PM

 
I've had friends that went through the state bootcamp for juveniles and it's failed. If you have a troubled kid that is 17 or older, convice him to join the US Marine Corps. It fixed me and has fixed anyone I've ever met.

Posted on 07/13/2008 at 10:07:00 AM

 
You may want to read my articles on teen issues. See them at http://www.markgregston.com.

Posted on 06/02/2007 at 3:06:00 PM

 
I don't think boot camps work at all because once you put that troubled teen back in the environment they were in they'll go back to their old ways. Even though some do get better you have to ask the question, Who started this problem they have?

Posted on 03/27/2007 at 9:03:00 PM

 
I see all of these troubled teen boot camp people on daytime talk shows and wonder if my out-of-control brother would benefit from them. I think for awhile he would be better behaved after boot camp, but would just go back to getting in trouble after a few months. But boarding schools are a little strange if you ask me. How can you send your child away for that long?

Posted on 11/01/2005 at 4:11:00 PM

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