Tween Birthday Party: The Sleepover

Tweens are at that awkward age...no longer children but not quite a teen. When it comes to birthday parties, it may be a little bit harder to figure out what exactly they want. They are likely to still want the attention and gifts of their birthday parties from yesteryear, but don't want to come off as being babyish. You can always ask, but you may get the shoulder shrug with a mumbled "I dunno". If your tween daughter is at a loss, suggest a Girls Night Sleepover.

Invitations for a sleepover don't have to be dramatic. You can create your own on Microsoft Word using clip art and a special font. Have your tween help in the design and layout of the invitation. If your child is computer savvy, as most tweens seem to be these days, they might even be able to do the whole thing themselves. You can always go the easier route and purchase store bought invitations, but having them create their own also creates a more personal touch. On your invitations make sure to let your guests know that it is a sleepover and pajamas, sleeping bag and pillow (if you don't have extras) are required. Also set specific drop off and pick up times, or you may have someone their longer than you intended.

Decorations can be kept to a minimum with this type of party. Perhaps just enough balloons and streamers in the color of choice to give it a festive party
atmosphere.

Party favors for this type of tween birthday can be fuzzy slippers, a small pedicure set with a bottle of nail polish, lip gloss and trial sizes of lotion. Get ideas from your daughter as often as possible. She may have a better idea on what will be a big hit and what will be a miss.