Things to Consider When Planning Your Wedding

The day has come and he finally popped the big question "Will You Marry Me? Wow! after you come down off of cloud nine, now what? Now is the time to plan, you have many questions that have to be answered.

First you have to figure out how you will organize and handle all the different aspect of the wedding, and reception afterwards. One way is getting a software program that with a click of a mouse you can organize all information. Some use a binder with tabs to keep all the information organized. What ever way you decide it is very important to have some kind of organization so events will run smoothly and you will be able to deal with the unexpected.

The first question to ask is what kind of wedding do we want? Who should we invite? Do we want a small, intimate wedding or a large wedding with lots of guests? If it's a small wedding, then who from the bride's family and who from the groom's family should be invited? What about friends, co-workers, family members that live far away from you? Do we have the time and means to have a hugh expensive wedding? Are you going to be married at somewhere special, i.e., on a boat, or something extreme like while skydiving, on horseback, all this will decide how large a wedding you can have. There are many questions that you need to have answered to decide which kind of wedding, small or large to have. The final decision is yours.

Next question is who will plan your wedding? Will it be family members from both sides and if so which ones? What about Uncle Bob, he is giving financial aid so should he be involved? You want to have those who help plan your wedding to have the same ideas that you have for your wedding, after all this is your special day. Whoever you have planning your wedding, make sure you tell them up front what you want and expect.