Easy Ways to Take Care of Your Wife Don't Have to Be Drastic Simple is Great

By 3lilangels, published Mar 14, 2008
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Being a women we are very independent and love to have our significant other nurture us in some ways sometimes, even if it's by doing the simplest things. This really makes us feel very special, but also grateful since we didn't have to tell you to do something or ask you. This doesn't mean you have to go overboard in a huge way either. I found out that some of the simplest ways are better to me simple is sometimes best. So here's a few ideas I feel will help benefit the two in the long run.

1. Try maybe one night surprising your wife by stocking the refrigerator with some of her favorite foods, snacks, or even candy so when she's feeling a little blue all she has to do is open up the fridge and boom there is some treats waiting for her. Sometimes when us women get upset we crave for some chocolate so this would be a great gesture. You can even maybe try recording some of her favorite t.v. programs that she might of either forgot to watch or got so busy with the kids there wasn't no time to see them. Surprise her this will give her something to look forward to, but also help her whine down from the busy day she had. These are small and very simple actions, but they make her feel cared for, because you are trying to create physical space in your own world for her not even knowing. I know with me it makes me appreciate my hubby when he does stuff like this, also makes me feel he's being very sensitive to my comfort.

2. In my own opinion action speaks louder than words I always felt that. To me simple body language like opening up the car door, helping with putting the children's clothes on, preparing a bath for her, or even helping her get across the street by holding her hand to me is a gentlemanly way to show you care and are looking out for her. This is simple gestures, but a wonderful way to show her your being attentive physically without even saying a word. Try just grabbing her hand while you are maybe in the food store, then plant a kiss on her for no reason. Actions can show a lot more than words sometimes.

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what if I do all of that and she is still unhappy?

Posted on 04/08/2008 at 6:04:54 PM

 
(nodding) passing this on to all them in my family.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 10:03:46 AM

 
:)

Posted on 03/18/2008 at 6:03:48 PM

 
Wow!! amazing insight into this! All men should read and follow this. LOL..Great article!!

Posted on 03/18/2008 at 12:03:28 AM

 
Alright! Now that's what I'm talking about. Thank you.

Posted on 03/16/2008 at 2:03:16 PM

 
Those are all great suggestions. It is important to reduce stress in the household. Also, it is important to be a partner in any exercise activities.

Posted on 03/16/2008 at 12:03:16 PM

 
I have a HORRIBLE cold and ear infection and yesterday my husband popped a roast in the crockpot before heading out to this and that with the kids. I was pleased to find it when I got up and when they came home he had found some Bird of Paridise (which I love) and my favorite ice cream - he must agree with your article LOL

Posted on 03/16/2008 at 9:03:22 AM

 
Another great article full of wonderful advice. I try my best to take care of my wife, because she takes such good care of me. Look, in the end, each other's all you've got, so it only makes sense to take care of yourselves and each other (sorry for the Jerry Springer ripoff there!)

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 10:03:57 PM

 
Fabulous job here. Guess who's getting this in e-mail????

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 2:03:56 PM

 
good article...sincerity would be compelled to make your suggestions a habit.

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 12:03:28 PM

 
very nice tips, very honestly done, loved this.

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 12:03:49 PM

 
Wonderful advice!

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 11:03:14 AM

 
I'M GOING TO HAVE MY HUBBY READ THIS ONE.

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 11:03:50 AM

 
It is the small things my husband does for me that let me know he cares, like when I come home to find the dishes washed. It's a real effort for him because my Corelle plates get stuck together when they're wet and he has a difficult time getting them apart! . Or he'll bring home a bag of red licorice for me, my favorite. I don't need diamonds and pearls.

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 10:03:33 AM

 
Excellent advice! It's easy to overlook the "little things" - especially if one's wife does not ask much of her husband. However, it's nice not to have to ask! Great article.

Posted on 03/15/2008 at 10:03:20 AM

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