Single Men and Women: Say "I Don't" Until You Say "I Do"

You read it right! Say "I don't" until you say "I do" is the mindset single men and women of today should have.

Unfortunately, this is not so. It's "how fast can I get him/her in bed?" It's all about "me, me, me!" No more considering the emotional, physical and spiritual repercussions following "casual sex".

We have demeaned God's most precious gift down to the least common denominator. Sex is the new handshake.

"Hi, nice to meet you. Let's have sex." How cheap have we become as a society.

There was a time when young ladies valued themselves highly. They thought of themselves as someone worthy of a man's respect. They believed that "saving themselves until marriage" was an honorable thing. "Giving it up at the drop of a hat" was the furthest thing from their minds. A woman's worth did not rely on the genitals availability to the first bidder.

A true woman is made up of: a heart, soul and mind. She should be attended to in such a way that shows a deep and abiding appreciation for everything that makes her a woman. A woman deserving to be adored, treasured, loved and respected - not just "sexed".

Sex is a wonderful thing. It brings two individuals closer together both physically and spiritually. Did you read that...spiritually.

When a man and a woman share in the most intimate of exchanges, they exchange not only bodily fluids, but spirits. Each man and woman has a spirit, and every time we kiss or have sexual intercourse (including oral sex) a piece of your spirit enters the other's body. Or haven't you noticed that couples that have been together for a long time, they begin to resemble one another? It is because they have exchanged each other's spirits and have taken on each other's spiritual DNA.

1 Corinthians 6:16 (The Message translation) "There's more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, "The two become one." "