Confessions of a Stay at Home Mom

By Heather Michelle, published Oct 11, 2006
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The life of the stay at home mom (SAHM) is one that is often criticized and largely misunderstood. Ever wonder what we do all day? Delve deep into the confessions of a stay at home mom.

1.We clean sometimes, but not nearly as much as we lead you to believe.
Cleaning is a task that is seemingly never ending. There is always laundry to be done, dishes to be washed, beds to be made, floors to be vacuumed, and so many more chores. The stay at home mom does indeed handle all of these cleaning responsibilities. The secret is that we do not do all of these chores as often as we may lead you to believe. For the most part, chores can be done quickly even though we may hint that they took much longer. Cleaning is a task that stay at home moms must tackle, but it is not as bad as we let on.

2. We take naps.
Yes, it's true. We take naps if we are so inclined. Those of us with younger children may sleep when they sleep. Those with older children who are in school have the freedom to nap whenever they please. The stay at home mom is on call at every moment of the day and so we are entitled to getting a nice relaxing nap in during the day.

3. We enjoy doing errands most of the time.
The life of a stay at home mom can be very stressful with a list of things to get accomplished while managing to care for the children. We enjoy running those mundane errands to the grocery store and post office because it gets us out of the house. We can listen to music in the car and chill out for the short ride. Sometimes it is taxing if the children are acting up, but for the most part it is a nice break to the day.

4. We would rather be working.
This is not true for every stay at home mom, but the thought passes through our heads more often than many people think. Being a stay at home mom is a very rewarding job but being in the workforce also gives a sense of identity and accomplishment that staying home doesn't.

Stay at home mom's get to spend quality time with their children.

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Takeaways
  • The stay at home mom does have time to spend on herself.
  • The stay at home mom deserves a paycheck.
  • The stay at home mom loves her children more than anything else.
Did You Know?
In 2004 there were 5.6 million stay at home moms in The United States according to the census.
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Who wrote those take-aways? They're not based on the article.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 1:03:32 PM

 
hmmm I think someone owes me ALOT of money. lol

Posted on 11/09/2007 at 12:11:00 PM

 
Very funny... and so true. I feel so guilty when I take a nap.

Posted on 10/25/2007 at 3:10:00 PM

 
I mostly agree with that what you wrote, nicely done!

Posted on 05/29/2007 at 2:05:00 PM

 
great article.

Posted on 04/01/2007 at 5:04:00 PM

 
ssssssssh! you're giving away all our secrets! For some good advice on how to be a better housewife... read my article titles 'How to Be a Better Stay at Home Mom'. The tips all have been proven successful with my marriage.

Posted on 03/14/2007 at 7:03:00 PM

 
Excellent article here! I have been a SAHM for more than 18 years now and have never regretted it a bit. Bored sometimes yes; wanted to go out and get a job to get away from some of the craziness sometimes yes; loved watching my children grow up and always been there for them; yes...it has been a win win situation for me. I feel I got more out of being a SAHM than any satisfaction out of any monetarily paid job I could have ever had but in turn I have the utmost respect for those moms, who are working moms in the workfoce being both the mom and a breadwinner...here here to you as well!! Thanks for the great article!!!

Posted on 03/14/2007 at 9:03:00 AM

 
By the way, I'm not saying it IS unfulfilling, I just understand how it can feel that way sometimes.

Posted on 03/12/2007 at 11:03:00 AM

 
Great article. I have so much respect for stay at home moms both because it can be very demanding, and because it can sometimes seem boring or unfulfilling. Congratulations on holding down the most important job there is!

Posted on 03/12/2007 at 11:03:00 AM

 
Being a sahm is challenging at times. I have felt many of the things you wrote about. LOL about the cleaning. That is so true for me - I do clean, but not nearly as much as I should or as much as people think I do!

Posted on 03/11/2007 at 8:03:00 PM

 
While I do agree with some of your points, I disagree on the house being clean. I have a 4yr old and a 1yr old. They are like demolition derbies. Then destroy as quickly as I clean! And, I can't remember the last time I took a shower during the daytime. But, my dh is very understanding, so he usually lets me get a nap after he gets home from work, and after he gets home is my ONLY chance to get a shower.

Posted on 12/04/2006 at 7:12:00 AM

 
Great article Heather, and very cute. I see so much of this in my cousin who became a SAHM 6 months ago. The 2 cats seem to be a lot for me at this point lol

Posted on 11/25/2006 at 9:11:00 PM

 
well, i'm not letting my husband read this! I amaze myself when I goof off on the compter a lot of the day and write for AC and do some fun activities with the kids and read for myself, and then whip the house into shape and start dinner all in 30 minutes! hee-hee

Posted on 11/09/2006 at 5:11:00 PM

 
Great article. I'm a SAHM, WAHM, and work part-time outside the home. I still take time for those naps though. 30 mintues out of my day isn't going to make my business die and now that my youngest is in school full-time (yay), I can start learning to take care of my needs again.

Posted on 11/03/2006 at 9:11:00 AM

 
I love it lol. sometimes i feel i'm not doing enough in one day but vegging on my computer too long. Nah that's just stress relief. Shhh don't tell all our secrets. Good job.

Posted on 11/01/2006 at 1:11:00 PM

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