The Black Woman and White Man PROGRAM in Online Interracial Forums

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If you're not at all interested in, or involved with, any online interracial forums, this post will be of no interest to you. If you ARE active in these forums, this post might either make you a little mad, or, you might even have more to add to what I've said here. And to those of you who've already read this post from my old blogs, I've added some things here to better express my points.
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I recently saw in a Black Woman and White man (BwWm) online group forum where a new group subscriber, whose profile photo showed him with a black woman, was welcomed with "I see by your profile that you're already with the program".

"The Program"? For real, what REALLY does that mean?

Are interracial relationships and/or one's expressed or implied interest in interracial dating now being regarded as a "Program"? Well hell, some of these people have been "With the program" for TEN YEARS or more AND ARE STILL SINGLE!!!!

***Thinks "Pffff, that's quite a useful PROGRAM, yanno?"

But seriously, what is one really doing when they're regarding interracial dating as a "Program"? I think they're racially objectifying, parading and/or glorifying what many decent, genuine and sincere people simply regard as an option to increase their likelihood of experiencing true and loving relationships (intimate or friend) during their stay here on Earth.

"The Program", shakes head, this just isn't sitting right with me. It's as if "The Program" is implying that it's BETTER than any other relationship structure JUST BECAUSE it's comprised interracially. Wow, how elitist! (Among other things, Straight faced constipated looking smiley).