The 5 C's of Happy Relationships

How to Improve Your Relationship

A relationship with someone, whether it be your spouse or partner, your family member, a friend, or even a complete stranger, can benefit from these five words that all start with the letter C.

Communication - Many people already know the importance of good communication, but they aren't always aware of how to apply it. Communication is not just about talking about your day or your feelings, but also talking to someone in a way they will understand you. Listening is equally
 important to successful communication. One person should never do all the talking. Communication is also not just limited to words; your body language can also communicate just as much as the words coming out of your mouth.

Caring - Caring is more than just feeling love towards someone. Caring requires sympathy, understanding, and compassion. You need to make the other person aware that you care. Showing that you care can be as simple as giving the person a hug or a pat on the back. It can be a word of encouragement or a prayer.

Consideration - Consideration is the ability to think about the other person's needs ahead of your own. It means holding a door for them, or offering to help them with something. Consideration means sharing the last cookie with another person instead of eating the whole thing yourself. It means bringing them a cup of coffee or telling them about a traffic jam before they go out. By thinking less of your own needs you will be able to see the many ways you can show consideration to someone else.

Courage - Courage is the ability to persevere through troubled times and face fears. It is the ability to be honest even if the truth may be painful. Courage can be implemented in many situations: crisises, financial difficulties, disagreements, and decisions. Being brave enough to work through problems instead of running away can bring lasting relationships. Practicing courage can be difficult, but it is a necessary trait to have to have a successful relationship.

 
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Great article. I think courage is the most interesting here..... doesn't fit with the standard idea of romance.....but true it is needed in relationships.

Posted on 07/26/2008 at 9:07:36 AM

So true! The Cs are awesome!

Posted on 04/14/2008 at 5:04:41 AM

I enjoyed your article The 5 C's of Happy Relationships.

Posted on 04/09/2008 at 9:04:50 AM

Good job.

Posted on 04/03/2008 at 10:04:58 AM

This is really a treasure chest. Thanks for it. Someone suggested to add something more. But I think this will perfectly work out for a healthy relationship

Posted on 04/03/2008 at 3:04:01 AM

Very good advice..

Posted on 04/02/2008 at 12:04:57 AM

Great article and so true! Hope others can learn from it :)

Posted on 04/01/2008 at 10:04:50 AM

Marvelous advice!

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 8:03:20 PM

terrific advice!! thanks. I just discovered your articles I'm sure I will be reading them all :)

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 12:03:01 PM

I like the 5 C's that you pointed out for good relationship. If we follow these, we'll be able to avoid "Counseling"!!!!

Posted on 03/29/2008 at 11:03:49 PM

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