Why Tall Women Should Wear High Heels

High Heels: Two words that many tall women dread. This article is for tall women who are afraid to wear high heels because they worry too much what complete strangers think. That's a sorry way to go through life: worrying what strangers will think of you. A tall woman must stop ranking
 her importance below that of strangers. If you're six feet, then you have a God-given right and Constitutional right to wear high heels; do not let other people take away your rights to feel feminine and stand tall and proud.

And sometimes, "tall" is only 5-10. I say "only" because 5-10 isn't that tall for a woman. It's actually considered marginally tall by the moderator of tallwomen.org. Many tall women who post on the "tall quotes" page complain they "can't" wear high heels. This includes women 5-10, believe it or not. None of these desperate women cite discomfort as the reason. "I'm too tall," is the reason. But if high heels hurt, then by all means, avoid them.

Yes, the reason is always because they're already tall enough, or, they worry what other people will think. Some tall women on the tallwomen.org site have even said that their friends challenge them for wearing high heels. Some of the tall women say they've gotten comments like, "Aren't you tall enough?" And, "Why do you wear high heels?" Rule No. 1 in life: Do not let other people, be they friends, family members, classmates, coworkers or strangers, dictate how you should feel about yourself. This is not how to live life.

If you're a tall woman who's ashamed or embarrassed about wearing heels, then my goal is to completely change your mind by the time you're done reading this.

Related information
  • Yearning for that cute pair of shoes with the high heels? You have every right to wear them!
  • Don't put the opinions of strangers above your own self-worth. Tall rocks!
  • Tall is synonymous with elegance, presence and power. Don't let people take that away from you.
 
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im 5 11'' people always have make fun of my because im tall one time a car stoped just to ask me HOW TALL I WAS? so embarissing!. i went to school in mexico so i have always been the tall one on my school,they alwayus make fun of my to the point that i hate it myself for been tall. i love higth heels so MUCH but i feel so unconfortable aroun people i look at higth heels and pretend that i will wear the one day. i buy higth heels so one day i deside to wear them i have spend so much money on heels, but im 20 years old and i dont want ot feel bad when i get older because i dont have self-esteem now. but i dont know how to start bulding confidense. my legs are really longgggggggggg. im half GERMAN AND MEXICAN.

Posted on 06/17/2009 at 10:06:04 PM

I broke down in tears reading this article. It describes me and how I let other people's opinion affect me and the things I wear. I'm 6 ft and I get alot of harmful comments everyday when I'm not wearing heels. So when I think about wearing them I think the comments will be 100 times worse. Dont get me wrong, I love high heels I can sit on a website dedicated to heels for hours and think " I wish I was shorter" but since I will never be I need to stop caring about what people think and think about how I feel about me. I needto work on my self-esteem.I want to thank the author of this article you gave me the boost that I needed. Every time I feel like not buying those sexy heels I'm going ot think back to this article, smile and grab those heels right of the shelf and race to the check out line. Thanks so much!

Posted on 05/03/2009 at 3:05:49 AM

My nickname is the 6 footer...I used to wear flats until age 45, finally started wearing 2-5 inch heels and WOW, do I ever get noticed now!!! What was I ever waiting for? WEAR HEELS......

Posted on 04/07/2009 at 8:04:31 PM

I enjoyed reading your article. As a kid i was constantly aware of my height because by the time i was in year 7 i was the tallest girl. When i got to high school i was already 6 ft and then by the time i graduated i was 6 ft 2. I always get told that im tall which is something i kinda already know lol but it doesnt stop me from wearing 2 inch shoes. My ex and i broke up 2 yrs ago simply because he was intimidated by me even though he was the same height. I just wish companies made clothes for long bodies and shoes for big feet. It would definately help me accept me as i am because with that i dont feel like other girls who can easily fit into a size 6 shoe

Posted on 03/21/2009 at 10:03:33 PM

I'm 5ft9" and just brought myself a gorgeous pair of 4"/5" heels. Know it's made me stand above the horizon a bit more, but SOME people will ALWAYS find SOMETHING to mock about you. Walk PROUD fellow tall ladies, there's room enough in this world for short and tall people, from the tiniest to the tallest walk down the street with a smile :)

Posted on 01/17/2009 at 1:01:39 PM

Im glad I can across this site. Im 53 years old, 5'10" tall. A note to you younger ladies, I totally understand how you feel because in school I was the tallest girl and had no self confidence due to my height. I was teased often too. It was later in life that I gained my confidence and now Im so glad Im tall. Most females envy your height, your long legs and the way your clothing looks on you. Now you need to perfect this by the way you walk. Growing up in the 50's and 60's, wearing high heels was a norm and I was taught at an early age how to walk. The secret to this is to take small steps (which most young women today fail to do, they take large steps which in heels look very awkward and unfeminine)place one foot in front of the other when you walk (while taking small steps)which gives the hips a slight sway. Keep your shoulders upright and straight, head held high with a slight smile and believe me, you will get noticed and not in a negative sense. It shows a confident female

Posted on 12/30/2008 at 11:12:33 PM

To the person who posted below this one: I'd be willing to bet your home life lacks love; whomever is raising you is critical of you; as a result, you have zero self-esteem. Kids don't make fun of your height; they make fun of you because of your social awkwardness. The height is just an accessory. You are in the same boat as many shorter girls who have social anxieties. Ever wonder why it is that some girls your height just LOVE their height and never get ridiculed? It's because they love themselves. My suggestion: Find a few activities to excel in. This will build your self-esteem. Next, avoid negative people when you can; and hang out with upbeat, kind people. Finallly, reach out to someone less fortunate than you.

Posted on 12/17/2008 at 12:12:07 PM

i cant wear them though i just cant! anytime i get stared at i blush like crazy! so at first i get teased for being over 6 foot (im only 17) then i get teased for going bright red. im so quiet and barely talk cause i hate how i look and hate how skinny i am and hate that i blush so much. all these things i cant change. and ive tried but cant accept it. i told i am a giant and am constantly referred to as "the tall one." often theres a group of guys loudly saying to each other, "look at the size of her!" im so self conscious that i had to walk on my own once with everyone else sitting down (about 60 other school kids) and i felt every eyes watching me cause im so tall. i spilt my drink cause i was so nervous and uncomfortable. ive never been kissed and nobodies ever fancied me. i have a little social anxiety cause i hate being in public... others usually look repulsed by me. im told also that i look like a boy, so i dont feel feminem at all. and if i try to dress girly or wear make up i

Posted on 12/17/2008 at 12:12:58 PM

I am 5 11". I am Pakistani. I can wear shalwar Khameez, Gharara etc. Please, guide me What type of Pakistani dress should I wear as I am 40 years old and 84 kg weight. I want to wear a charming dress at my sister wedding. Please, reply as soon as possible.

Posted on 12/09/2008 at 11:12:10 PM

To any one there who is open minded, Im a transgendered person. Im 6ft-3ins. and proud. Yes ladies, Im proud to be where I am today as I spent years trying to devising ways to kill myself. I spent years in trades where I abused my body also. After meeting a person here localy who was like me , tall and about to be female , she worked with me to be proud of my self. Yes, I was hard. I realized that there is no shame in being tall or trans . I am a moderator at a local M C C church where Im trying to reach out to every one and teach people to be proud of who you are and to offer support. Ladies, if you've got legs, show them, show them with the best dress you own Dare to be who you are!

Posted on 09/23/2008 at 9:09:00 AM

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