Long Distance Relationships (LDRs)

Have you ever been in a long distance relationship (LDR)? Do you think you can be in one? I feel there are positives and negatives involved in the survival of a long distance relationship. The most important factor of survival in this type of relationship is the commitment of the couple involved.

Five Things That Will Make It Work:

1. Commitment: Commitment is the most important factor of all in a long distance relationship. Without it, there's no reason to start one.

2. Communication: There has to be communication at all times. What else does the couple have to sustain their long distance relationship?

3. Honesty: A couple involved in a long distance relationship must be honest with themselves, as well as being honest with each other at all times in a long distance relationship.

4. Trust: Trust is a must. The couple has to be willing to trust each other. Since distance keeps them apart, this is crucial to the relationship. Without trust, a long distance relationship will definitely not survive.

5. Plan Visits: Couples involved in a long distance relationship must visit each other as often as possible. Seeing each other in person and the physical contact is critical to keep this type of relationship alive.

Five Things That Can Prevent It From Working:

1. Amount of Distance: The amount of distance between couples is important. Too much distance between couples will make it harder to see each other in person. This might hinder the survival of a long distance relationship.

2. Lack of Communication: Communication is necessary to sustain a long distance relationship. Once the communication starts to break down, it may become obvious to one partner the relationship may be changing.
3. Lack of Trust: A long distance relationship must have trust at all times. Once the lack of trust becomes an issue for either partner, a long distance relationship might not survive.