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A Safe and Humane Way to Contain Your Mentally Challenged Loved One

Better Than an Institution and Will Ensure He is Safe

By Waldorf PC, published Mar 25, 2008
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You have a mother, father, or spouse who suffers from dementia or Alzheimer's: or, they've had head trauma that will change them forever. Your loved one wanders in the middle of the night or is putting themselves into danger. You feel helpless as you do not know what to do. Then, there is the handicaps/special needs adult who poses a danger to himself and needs to be contained for safety reasons. He gets out of bed, messes up the house, puts things in his mouth, and sometimes, wanders away into danger.

Does any of this sound like your situation? Do you feel helpless right now? Stop right there! Help is on its way. Here is a solution.

The most humane way to contain your loved one and still ensure his comfort at the same time is to invest in an adult crib. Some may scorn you because they think it is weird or inhumane. But, wouldn't you think it is better then tying them up or locking them in a room? Let's compare the options and see why the adult crib would be the best way to go.

Tying Them Up

Wow! That right there just makes me quiver. This option makes it seem as though the person is the equivalent of an animal or hideous beast! Not to mention, when tied down, he is not comfortable in the least bit. He cannot change positions to get a good night sleep, and he is stuck in the same position the entire time which, many of us know from personal experience, can become excruciatingly painful. Have you ever slept in one position to wake up feeling stiff and in pain the next morning? That is what would happen if you should decide to tie down your loved one. This is a common method used in institutions which is one reason why I hate them. How sick!

Put yourself in your loved one's shoes. Would you want this done to you? And, don't you think your loved one deserves to be comfortable?

Locking Them in a Room

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Excellent article. I really like your writing style.

Posted on 04/21/2008 at 6:04:18 PM

 
One may also want to consider placing a gps device on a loved one that may become lost. Great information. Taking care of a loved one with challenges isn't always the easiest task and there are so many decisions that need to be made daily.

Posted on 04/03/2008 at 1:04:09 PM

 
great article

Posted on 03/27/2008 at 4:03:21 PM

 
Wonderful and well written.

Posted on 03/26/2008 at 9:03:58 AM

 
Interesting. Well written.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 8:03:25 PM

 
I am just glad that this is something that I do not need to worry about.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 10:03:37 AM

 
great report, thanks for this information.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 10:03:33 AM

 
I didn't even know adult cribs even existed. You are correct it makes a lot of sense. Wonerful information.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 9:03:26 AM

 
Great information

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 9:03:27 AM

 
Wow very informative read here, awesome presentation and wish I could give more than 5 stars!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 8:03:05 AM

 
You presented very difficult to comprehend information well! None of us wants to think about this but we may eventually have to deal with it. Well done!

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 7:03:56 AM

 
Good well presented ideas.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 7:03:02 AM

 
This is a good idea. I had a great aunt with Alzheimer's. The nursing home she was in, in Chicago, restrained her because she was combative. We freed her from that place and brought her to Texas. She lived out her life here, unrestrained, and seemingly happy. We just wore shin guards around her in case she wanted to kick us. It would have been nice if we had a crib for her; because, even with bed rails, she would climb out of bed to wander around the house. We ended up hiring a night time sitter to keep an eye on her--which was more costly than a crib.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 7:03:16 AM

 
Great info for people with a loved one with these challenges!

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 4:03:32 AM

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