"Gay Marriage" is as Traditional as "Straight Marriage"

The Truth About Same-sex Marriage

By Priscilla Lane, published Oct 05, 2006
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    The right to marry is defined by the United Nations as a basic human right (U.N. 3).  In spite of this, millions of people in the United States are prohibited, in some cases by law, from marrying as they choose.  The people of whom I speak are gays, lesbians, and bisexuals who wish to marry others of the same sex.  These are citizens who work, pay taxes, and own property, but they are denied this fundamental right that other taxpayers are allowed.  This situation is intolerable and contrary to the spirit and law of the United States.

  Many of those who wish to deny marriage to same-sex couples claim to have history on their side. President Bush is one who claims that the fundamental institution of marriage has historically been composed of “one man and one woman.” (Bush.) History itself, however, does not support this claim: throughout recorded history, human societies have recognized and sanctioned same-sex marriages (Harmon par. 9). Marriage is a varied and dynamic institution. It has taken many forms, and among those forms is same-sex marriage (AAA).

  The American Indian custom of “two-spirit” marriage institutionalized matrimony between two people of the same biological sex. “Two-spirit” people were considered to be, spiritually speaking, of both genders at once, or even a third (Eskridge 40). Female two-spirits married women, and male two-spirits married men. These marriages were often considered advantageous to the one whom the two-spirit married, as some cultures held two-spirit people in high social esteem.

  During the Yuan and Ming dynasties in China, same-sex marriages between two men were accepted and recognized by society. These marriages were undertaken with all the formalities: the bride price, standard marriage rituals, and social forms associated with “normal” marriages were all present and adhered to. These unions peaked in the seventeenth century, but persisted well into the eighteenth century, despite persecution under the Qing dynasty (Eskridge 41-42).

Takeaways
  • Gay marriage is a traditional element of many cultures.
  • Laws against same-sex marriage violate the 14th Amendment to the Constitution of the United States.
  • Same-sex or gay marriages should be legally recognized in the United States.
Did You Know?
At the time of this writing, same-sex marriages are legally recognized in the Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Canada. Nations which offer civil unions with similar benefits to marriage are Andorra, Argentina, Brazil, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Iceland, Israel, Luxembourg, New Zealand, Norway, Portugal, Slovenia, Sweden, Switzerland, the United Kingdom, and the Australian state of Tasmania
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Lorraine, thank you for commenting. Like you, I am an American Indian; I'm a member of the Cherokee Nation of Oklahoma. I chose to use the phrase "two-spirit" for this article because of the derogatory origins of the word "berdache." "Berdache" is not a native word, it came from the Spaniards and originated in Persia. It was indeed a derogatory term when applied by the Spaniards. However, the fact that the Spanish invaders applied a derogatory term and view to homosexuality among Indians does not indicate that those relationships were looked upon as negative by the natives themselves. The evidence indicates that those marriage were, in most cases, accepted and honored. I chose to use "two-spirit" because it is the word most commonly used by modern GLBT Indians.

Posted on 06/30/2007 at 2:06:00 AM

 
I find your whole "two-spirit" argument suspect. "Two-spirit" is a term that came about in 1990. The true term is berdache and is not a complimentary term among those of us of aboriginal American descent. It's a derogatory term.

Posted on 06/14/2007 at 4:06:00 AM

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