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Best Material Possessions to Pass Down to Your Child

By Lauren Romano, published Mar 31, 2008
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At one point or another, a parent will usually pass down some of their material possessions to their child. Seeing as a child never knows everything that their parents own, it's better to give your child the item in person. Not only is it an opportunity to explain what the item is and what it means to you, but it's also a great bonding experience. You obviously want to give your child something to remember you by as well as something that they could possibly use. If you're wondering what material possessions would be fabulous to pass down to your child, consider some of these options.

A wedding dress is an item that is frequently handed down from mother to daughter. It symbolizes the union between the parents and has a lot of sentimental value. Sometimes though, the wedding dresses from the past aren't exactly what brides today would wear. This is where some feelings can get hurt. Before you make a huge deal out of passing on your wedding dress to your daughter, make sure ahead of time that the dress you are handing down would be worn or can at least be altered to fit the style your child would want to wear.

Jewelry made today, in my opinion, isn't made with as much personality as it used to be. Most of the jewelry made today seems to be cookie cutter, plain and isn't special to look at. This obviously doesn't apply to every piece of jewelry, but it seems as though if you've seen one piece of jewelry made today you've seen them all. Passing down your jewelry to your child gives them an opportunity to have a unique piece of jewelry that there may not be many of. Considering jewelry usually has sentimental value attached to it, it would be something personal that your child can hold on to and think of you and the story attached to it.

Toys are great items to consider passing down. Toys are so much different today then they were even five or ten years ago. They are great collectible items, interesting conversation pieces, and will be something unique to have that chances are isn't still made today.

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Great suggestions. I have some items that have been passed down from my grandmother. They mean a lot to me.

Posted on 04/07/2008 at 9:04:03 AM

 
These are some really great ideas!

Posted on 04/06/2008 at 9:04:10 AM

 
:-)

Posted on 04/04/2008 at 7:04:34 PM

 
Good ideas :) Sheri

Posted on 04/04/2008 at 1:04:10 AM

 
Thanks for the comments everyone. CJ that's a fantastic idea. That's what my family does as well.

Posted on 04/03/2008 at 11:04:35 AM

 
Fantastic suggestions - I let my kids go through my house and tell me what they wanted from it - then I put it in the will so there will be no questions in the future.

Posted on 04/03/2008 at 10:04:17 AM

 
Sadly, I think about this often. When I die, I always wonder what I would leave for my daughter to pass on to her family.

Posted on 04/02/2008 at 10:04:37 AM

 
Wonderful suggestions! Our family has about 6 generations (150+ years) of mementos and "stuff" which are all part of the rich tapestry of our family history...sharing that history is an important part of passing on those treasures to the next generation.

Posted on 04/01/2008 at 10:04:51 PM

 
Great article! =)

Posted on 04/01/2008 at 3:04:22 PM

 
great suggestions

Posted on 04/01/2008 at 6:04:39 AM

 
Great suggestions. I have found that as you get older, it is more meaningful to you, so even though my kids really are not interested in things right now ( they are in their 20's), they will be more willing to want things later in life. :-)

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 10:03:10 PM

 
:)

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 7:03:13 PM

 
Thank you everyone! Kassidy I agree, the photographs must be marked. That's so sad that your friend had a pile of memories and no idea what they were really of.

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 7:03:42 PM

 
Photographs are a must, but i have to add "identified" to photographs. A friend inherited boxes and boxes of photos. Unfortunately the majority of them were unmarked and she had no clue who the people were. She was the last member of the family, so there was no one to identify them. How sad that all that family history was lost...

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 7:03:27 PM

 
These are some great ideas! Well written, Lauren! I know I treasure the antique jewelry and furniture that has been passed down in my family. My daughter can't appreciate it yet...but I'm sure she will eventually.

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 6:03:46 PM

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