OK, I Admit It; I'm in Middle-Age

Thoughts at 4 A.M

By Jim Stillman, published Mar 30, 2008
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I have been working on a serious article in my fledgling debate with friend and political adversary/challenger. Randy Inman. He has the disturbing ability to discern when my political views stray too far to the Left and need moderation. A recent conversation with my sister, an iconoclastic soul seven years my senior, made me awaken at 4:00 o'clock this morning with a few random thoughts.

Middle-Age

I have just celebrated my 73rd birthday. At least, that's what I am told. Frankly, I do not remember all of them, but then I don't remember a lot of stuff. For example, I have been employed by Jackson-Hewitt Tax Services as Manager of a busy office situated in a large retail store started by a now- deceased gentlemen from Arkansas. This store is huge and its parking lot immense. There are two entrances into the store and I try and park near one of them; when I leave to go home, I never am certain about which door at which I entered. I look for Big Red, activate the alarm from the doohickey attached to the key and follow the noise. The point is, however, unless some miscreant has moved the car during the day, I should remember.

I have heard that the difference between forgetting things as we age and a serious disease is that, if I forget where I park, it's normal and natural. On the other hand, if I do not remember that I own a car, it's serious.

Anyway, I have always contended that "middle-age" starts ten years from wherever I am at the time. I am now, formally, announcing and acknowledging that I have entered "middle-age " but just by a hair -- like dipping a toe into cold ocean water at the beach.

Reading for fun

I have a habit of reading two books at once and I am now working my way through two truly fascinating books. First is Jeffrey Toobin's The Nine, a brilliant analysis of the United States Supreme Court, the Justices and the pressures and backgrounds that make them interpret statutes and the Constitution ion so vastly different ways. The other book is the newest John Gresham, The Verdict. It is, in my opinion, one of his best.

Both of these books explore the nature of decision making by Judges.

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Gee, I thought I was middle-aged for sure, since I turn 50 in July. I like YOUR philosophy much better & promise to be there when you celebrate the 150th Birthday! It's only a number, eh? Great writing & a very enjoyable read! KIM PS I've been losing cars in parking lots since I could drive alone...don't think it means anything other than inattention to detail. ;-)

Posted on 04/02/2008 at 4:04:02 PM

 
Really like your style, the way you held my interest and our shared age(s), somewhere in middle age territory. However, I read the shooting script for Juno and it rocked....so I have hopes of staying in the loop a bit longer before I get totally loopy.

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 7:03:17 PM

 
Good rambling, Jim....you are an artist..

Posted on 03/30/2008 at 8:03:12 PM

 
My husband is 74 and will be 75 this year. So I take it he is middle aged. I just turned 60 and now receive my pension from England so I thought I was a pensioner as they call it Old Age Pension. Inside I feel like 18 and act like an 18 year old so I suppose that is a good thing. Susie.

Posted on 03/30/2008 at 7:03:02 PM

 
Was the coffee good?

Posted on 03/30/2008 at 6:03:32 PM

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