Sex, Tension, Stress and Fear Impact You: Making Life Better by Planning and Strategy

Put your hands out in front of you, now make a circle by touching your forefingers and thumbs together, now put about two inches between them all, you should be looking at an enlarged circle between your fingers and thumbs, are you? Now imagine that the person who aggravated the snot out of you this morning has their neck in that circle and you want to choke the living breathing daylights out of them (!), because they desperately need to have their whole existence changed! But you can't move ...that's stress! [1]

What drives us all, every being on the planet, drives you, drives me, drives us all, are basic elements of existence. [2] Sex is one of these, and those who say that genes are everything proclaim that this is perpetuating the species. [3] Those who feel that environment has more to do with it than just genes can feel reassured in the changes which are taking place in our thinking about sex as a drive. [4] Tension is a part of what makes our lives move, some would say that many have better genes for withstanding the strains of tension, [5]but again, those who acknowledge environment for the power that it has, will be glad to note the ability we have to learn to handle tension. Stress is a part of our modern lives, and our ability to handles stress is the most modern change of all. Into this mix comes fear, and fear is a survival instinct of the first magnitude [6] - it warns us of danger, and keeps us alive, yet, is fear being changed in our basic behavior patterns?