Just when You Think Everything is Going Great with Someone You've Just Met, BANG, Here Comes the SEX Talk

Have you ever felt disappointed or even disgusted when you've finally met someone who really seems to demonstrate a lot of what you're looking for in a partner and just when you think you're starting to make a quality connection, BANG, out comes the sex-talk?

So, do you like sex?

How long has it been since the last time you've had sex?

Do you miss it?

What's your favorite position?

Do you enjoy oral?

Which do you prefer, giving or receiving?

What the H.E.Double-Hockey-Sticks is that all about??

Well, as the expression goes, nothing happens without reason, especially when you're talking about "People". Human Beings are a very complex animal, yet we seem to remain so primitive in our nature. We enjoy demonstrating reckless, irresponsible and selfish behavior without any care in the world of what the repercussions may be.

If you're an individual who truly takes intimate relationships seriously, that obviously means that when you're engaging with a potential partner, you're putting forth a genuine effort to develop a sincere connection with them. Granted, it would be really nice if that person was to return the same energies, but unfortunately, that's not always the case.

But what amazes me in situations like these is that some people actually allow themselves to become upset or even down right pissed off when a potential partner suddenly demonstrates such crude behavior. If you think about it, if you're motivations are genuine and sincere, doesn't their demonstration of sudden and crude behavior really do you a huge favor?

When a person, man or woman, suddenly starts demonstrating crude behavior by bringing up all kinds of unnecessary sex-talk, it's very likely that they're inadvertently admitting that they're either not thinking for themselves, or sex is simply their primary motivation in connecting with you. With as strong as expressed sexuality is in American Culture combined with the number of people who demonstrate gratification from this expressed sexual behavior, it leads many people to think that this particular behavior is actually required in order to receive attention.