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Remembering Reverend Dr Martin Luther King Jr and Childhood Race Issues

We've Come so Far and Still Have Further to Go

By Momie Tullottes, published Apr 04, 2008
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While I was not alive 40 years ago when the great Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, the symbolism of his death still pains my heart. It was a moment in history that affected all of us and should never be forgotten. Dr. King's efforts toward peace between all races had a big impact on the way America is today. While there are still some things that need to be worked on, this country has made progress toward the equality the Reverend Dr. sought after. I think if he were here today, he'd be proud of how far we've come and continue to push us toward further progress.

As I witness a woman and a black man both running in the race for president, I can see another part of Dr King's plan coming together. We are all equal and Martin knew that from the start. Growing older, I see less instances of racial discrimination than I did as a child, but I still see and experience them. Again, America has certainly come a long way, but we still have a long way to go.

Thinking of Dr. King and his dream for all people to come together causes me to reflect on racial instances I have experienced in my own life. Following is a recollection and reflection of my first experience with issues involving race.

I first learned of racial differences as a child. I can still remember the exact moment. It was during recess of my 2nd grade class on a warm and sunny day. My good friend Tyrone and I were getting balls out of the ball bin. Knowing me, I was probably getting a basketball, but that part is fuzzy to me. What I remember more clearly is the question he asked me. "What color are you?", he asked. I had never been asked that before, so I actually had to think about it before answering.

You see, my mother simply taught us to love everyone, not ever mentioning different skin tones, so I really had no concept of skin color. She later had to explain it after I got home from school and questioned it. I truly believe that in her eyes, as still exists in mine, there was no difference. I only wish everyone felt that way.

Takeaways
  • We are all equal and Martin knew that from the start.
  • My mother simply taught us to love everyone, not ever mentioning different skin tones.
  • America has certainly come a long way, but we still have a long way to go.
Did You Know?
Growing older, I see less instances of racial discrimination than I did as a child, but I still see and experience them.
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What a beautiful article Momie. I'm going to be kept busy browsing your publications.

Posted on 06/05/2008 at 9:06:51 PM

 
This was very touching. Thank you for sharing your experience and feelings. Your mother is a very wise and loving woman!

Posted on 04/30/2008 at 8:04:03 PM

 
Very poignant, and it is so fascinating how we can remember things that are so painful or sensitive to us when we are so young. I remember as a child hearing the neighbors refer to the Jewish family who lived near us in racial slurs. I talked to Mikey through the fence and felt such sadness because he looked like me, and didn't understand why they were hated. I also knew that if they knew I was half Mexican (american) that they would hate me too. At that time it was supposed to be a secret. It wasn't, but I didn't know that. It is so sad, and as a child seeing the coloring box with flesh colored crayon, and it was peach, or beige that made me sad too. I am glad that has changed. We have come a long way but not far enough. Beautiful article

Posted on 04/25/2008 at 12:04:42 PM

 
A well written informative piece.An important subject to cover.

Posted on 04/24/2008 at 11:04:54 PM

 
We can learn so much from innocent children. I hope you enjoyed playing ball that day!

Posted on 04/24/2008 at 8:04:35 PM

 
Incredibly written. Great job!

Posted on 04/23/2008 at 5:04:41 PM

 
Wow, Tyrone kept it REALLY real with you. One drop rule was learned early in life for him, I see. My parents taught me about race early, but I hung out with so many people of various races that it was never an issue...until I got to Marquette, MI where everybody thought Black folks acted exactly like BET Music Videos. *rolling my eyes* Anyway, this was a good article. Every time I read one of these articles by you, I keep thinking "Why have I not subscribed to her content?" Today I'm going to remember to do it. As for MLK, did you see the CNN Special about his assassination? It kinda freaked me out. I started peeking out of my windows at the bushes (if you saw the special, you'll know why I did that). It was really good though. I taped it.

Posted on 04/16/2008 at 6:04:58 PM

 
We are all a special part of each other, we teach each other about our pain and heartbreak in this life. Congratulations on Associated Content acknoledging your body of work, funny how time flies.

Posted on 04/16/2008 at 12:04:43 PM

 
Great article. I think those different races or cultures can all look back and remember the moment as a child we were informed we weren't like everybody else and later on realize how profound that moment really was. Thank you for sharing, good job.

Posted on 04/15/2008 at 9:04:56 AM

 
Great article. It's amazing how much things that we see or hear us a child can have a lasting impact on the psyche.

Posted on 04/13/2008 at 1:04:38 PM

 
Momie, Thank you so much for this beautiful article! I loved it. My husband in Latino and together we have faced our share of racist remarks directed at our "mixed-marriage". I also wrote an article about Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. on my personal blog a few days ago and spoke of how the small PA town where my husband was born was segregated well into the mid-seventies. I find it more than a bit disturbing that so much of the media seems to have forgotten what a gift Dr. King was, and we hear less and less about him each year. It is important to keep his message alive by reminding others what his dream really was.

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 3:04:09 PM

 
Momie, although your article is inspiring in that you have taken precious time away from your daily chores and love ones to pay tribute to the slain Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King. Unlike yourself, I was 13 years old and I shall never forget the moment the news was broadcasted at the Washington Elementary School in Birmingham Alabama. I will never gorget the tears of Ms. Stringer and the silence that fell on naught, because in that self same hour it was finished. This man whom many speak of we cannot begin to compare his life to the depth of his hopes and aspirations to see his children not only grow up and live in this world; but for him his hope would have been to visually see them live out his dream. Unfortunately, this was something that Dr. King could not discuss, his preparation for the inevitable was a daily concern. God rendered him peace, but in this world he never found rest. Thank you for those kind words.

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 3:04:14 PM

 
Thanks so much everyone. I am still enjoying reading all the great feedback on this. Thanks Jerry. I was shocked, excited, and honored all at once when they contacted me about that. :-) For those (like me) who signed up for the newsletter, but didn't get it: http://www.elabs6.com/functions/message_view.html?mid=195947&mlid=11158&siteid=29116&uid=9eab489adc

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 2:04:37 PM

 
Congrats on being the featured CP in this month's newsletter.

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 12:04:46 PM

 
He was a brave and meaningful soul. I do not have a racist bone in my body and I am very proud of that. Great job with this.

Posted on 04/09/2008 at 10:04:54 PM

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