Find Your Perfect Type of Girl

In order to discover your perfect type of girl one must start by taking a look in the mirror. You must define who you are as a person before running out and navigating your way through a crowded bar in search for "the one." You shouldn't even be looking for your perfect type in a bar anyway (but we'll get to that later). You must first look to yourself because it is important to compare the type of person you are versus your perfect type of girl in order to judge the compatibility between the two types. If you struggle with identity issues then defining yourself as a person may pose some difficulty but you can always try. Ignore that entire cliché "look deep within yourself and heart" to discover your true inner being. That stuff doesn't work. I bet you're asking yourself, "What kind of person am I?"

Think about all the good and bad deeds you've done in your life (the ones you consider most significant or those that stick out in your mind). Then think about your current perspective on life and the world around you (i.e. the things you like and dislike, what annoys you, what makes you happy, your beliefs, desires, views on people and culture vs. your own, your actions in the past, etc.).

The hardest part is being honest and genuine with yourself. Unless you are a hypocritical liar then put that down as one of your qualities. Based on your past actions and current perspectives, write down the exact qualities you have, both good and bad. Looking at this list, this is the type of person you are and are perceived as by others currently. However, people can change, and if you desire to then proceed to list the traits you would like to have and the ones you would like to lose. This list will serve as who you really are deep down inside because this is the person you are striving to become.