Men: How to Make Your New Relationship Last

Quality Tips for All Men

By JD Ramos, published Apr 09, 2008
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Relationships can be a great time in your life, if you play your cards right. It is important to know what is beneficial to the relationship and what can become viral. Many relationships start very quickly, others may develop over time. Regardless of how your relationship began, this article will focus on what is important for you to do. This is so that you are able to maintain the relationship and be successful with women.

Once you have these few suggestions under your belt you will be on your way to a better relationship. This will help you avoid the various pitfalls that I have seen people fall into over and over again, only to scratch their heads and wonder why, yet never look for a solution. I marvel at how difficult men make it seem when it comes to either approaching or talking to a woman. If you take the time and follow what works you will do just fine. It is important to be yourself, as long as you are a person centered, what I mean by that is you are confident in whom you are and what you have to offer. This is only for men who are interesting in a successful relationship. This would help those who are looking, as well as anybody in a new relationship.

The main issues are that we all project who we want people to see when we are in public. The problem with that is that you have to live a double life for as long as your relationship lasts. Unless you are Batman, Spider-man, or any super hero of your choice, there really is no reason to live a double life. It is important to be comfortable in your own skin. If you start off a relationship with lies it is like a boomerang, it will come back, count on it. Perhaps it will not be apparent at the start of the relationship but over time it will hurl back and do its damage.

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  • Relationship Advice
  • Tips for Men
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Wise advice all around. Thank you! My only request would be that my guys have permission to chatter ALL they want. I figure that lots of talk about little things is great practice for likely being able to talk about the big things when they inevitably hit. :)

Posted on 07/23/2008 at 5:07:13 PM

 
Thank you for your input/Comments !

Posted on 06/16/2008 at 6:06:11 PM

 
This is an excellent article! If I may make some suggestions? I partially would like to amend your comment about speaking at length about topics interesting to the man...believe it or not, there are plenty of women who find sports, cars, and computers fascinating; I think the trick is being multi-faceted and not just have one hobby, interest or passion and then lecture on it ad nauseam. Secondly (something that I found always to be a major turn off), don't badmouth a previous relationship partner. This makes the man look like a dolt for choosing a harpy for a girlfriend and it furthermore betrays a significant lack of appreciation for the personal growth the past relationships have afforded him. Once again, this is a great article!!!

Posted on 05/17/2008 at 10:05:29 AM

 
something that she mentioned - it is always important (man or woman) to listen to what others say. One of my daughters is the best gift giver and it is all because she buys them something that means something to the other person.

Posted on 04/14/2008 at 6:04:35 PM

 
I'm no man, but these are great suggestions to help maintain a healthy relationship! You focused on really important aspects that people tend to forget when dating. Kudos to you! ;o)

Posted on 04/09/2008 at 8:04:31 PM

 
hmm, very interesting reading...thanks for sharing your thoughts on this important subject...cheers

Posted on 04/09/2008 at 7:04:08 PM

 
Isnt it true though lol, we all do it there was a study they showed us when i was younger about that. And another unrelated study called "the mask of masculinity" About how we dont show emotions as men and hide behind our masks. Came from how baby boomers were brought up to be tough, now we can show emotions but not all. Its tough! THANK YOU FOR THE COMMENT !!!!

Posted on 04/09/2008 at 6:04:47 PM

 
haha i love the double life comment

Posted on 04/09/2008 at 5:04:11 PM

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